From happier times in New Orleans, Louisiana. This photo was taken while we waited in line at Cafe Du Monde in the French Quarter. Spared by Hurricane Katrina for the most part, on Monday, the levees started to fail, bringing devastating flooding to the city. New Orleans is now being evacuated, which should have happened when they knew a category five hurricane was headed straight for the city. To rid the area of people now, the authorities will have to deal with looters who robbed drug stores and gun shops. Law enforcement will be met by angry, wet dudes overdosing on birth control pills and valium, toting Rambo-style weaponry, ready to defend the ding dongs they stole while looting the convenience stores. The photo is from April 19, 2003, when Jutta was with us for another road trip.
Time for Reflection
After my two-week road trip to Florida, the purchase of our new Canon DSLR, building a new PC for Caroline, and trying to finish writing my travel journal detailing the cross-country drive, it seems as though I have had little time to dedicate to doing much more than posting my POTD here on my site. – (The photo above is from a back road in Lousiana on the way to Mississippi near the banks of the Atchafalaya River)
Maybe it’s aging, but making my way from the West to the East Coast on a slow crawl over farm roads, country roads, and minor highways, the recovery is similar to finishing a demanding book read to fast.
I thought we were having a problem with the new camera last night, which required me to return to Foto Forum for more of Joe’s excellent help. Turns out my lens is not as defective as I thought, nor does the clean sensor work simply by selecting it. Joe showed me that a piece of dust had penetrated the inner sanctum of the body and had lodged itself on the image sensor, normal, I am told. A puff from a Hakuba Super Blower bulb from Joe’s expert hand and the camera is back to perfection.
For my $9 purchase, Joe invested more than a couple of hours walking me through various lens configurations familiarizing me with the why and why not of particular choices in choosing our next lens.
While Joe and I go through the motions, a gentleman on my right excuses himself and enters our conversation; he is Hal Byron Becker. Mr. Becker was a programmer before what he claims is retirement; he is now a professional photographer although I think he may not agree with this title, he calls it a hobby. Mr. Becker not only has a tremendous eye for photographing people he has a sharp mind for the intricacies of the dynamics and methodologies of digital photography and raw image manipulation.
If I can continue with my run of good luck, Mr. Becker will share some of his knowledge with me as he has offered to. Along with Joe’s help and the support of his employer, I am more certain today why I have continued to buy photography equipment from Foto Forum for the past six years. Thanks, Joe, Foto Forum, and now Mr. Becker too.
Caroline’s new PC is quietly humming along, so next week, I should be able to finish reconfiguring her old 2.8 GHz P4 with 1GB RAM for myself. After a week of shooting 8MP jpg and the odd raw file, we will, I am certain, be looking at building a 1TB image storage computer within a year.
As for the Florida travelogue, I am on my 33rd unedited page with a little more than three days of the trip left to write about. Over the 15 days and 5,988 miles, I shot 1,546 photos, which I will begin posting as soon as the story is finished being edited.
From last year, I am going to make another pass over the text of a trip Caroline and I took with our friend Jay Patel from Phoenix to the Tetons, Yellowstone, Theodore Roosevelt National Park in North Dakota, Minnesota, Wisconsin, Iowa, Nebraska, Kansas, and New Mexico. We shot almost 1,900 photos, and I hope to glean two to three hundred of the best for the story.
In a bit more than a week, I will turn 42 years old; I don’t know that I could be any happier. It is a great time of life right now – wow!
As for blog direction, if you have stumbled across this hodgepodge site, it is not necessarily for you; it is for me, it is for my wife, it is for my friends and family who might have more of an interest in my mundane life than someone looking for great blog journalism.
Last note, this photo of the day is getting much more difficult as the days go on. How many restaurants, cat photos, Caroline and John photos can I shoot?
Auntie and Grandpa Going to Florida – Day 13
Natchitoches, Louisiana, and the end of notes from the trip. There’s nothing else I wrote about, so here I am nearly 15 years after I made this journey with Aunt Eleanor and Grandpa Herbert, both of whom have since passed away, and I need to come up with some kind of narrative that might flow with the previous 12 days that had copious notes.
To be honest, there’s not a lot left in my head about this leg, and what I posted in those other entries didn’t trigger some deep memories that I can harvest to fill this space. We were on the way home, but there were so many photos I wanted to share as we were obviously not rushing back to Phoenix. So now what?
Kind of like a traffic signal in the middle of nowhere; death shows up, and we come to a stop. Ten months after this trip across America’s southern states, my maternal grandfather passed away. He was the last surviving grandparent I had, and then a few years after that, in 2009, my great-aunt Eleanor died at the age of 97. Eleanor was Herbie’s older sister.
The memories of family that have moved on can, at times, be like a body of water in that they are there, but they might be somewhere just below the surface. Over time, much of that water will evaporate, and while it can fall back to earth, there is little likelihood that you’ll ever see it again. Like with water, there are places where memories run deeper, but without the proper craft, we may not know how to reach them.
This simile is how I feel I can best express myself today as I look inward, trying to remember who my relatives were during this time in their lives. The existential nature of being on a path to learning who we are doesn’t leave a lot of bandwidth for trying to know who others were and how they got there. They were more like fixtures of fully-formed selves that I simply couldn’t comprehend thinking they already had arrived at who they were – or did they? How often do we consider that the elderly are still becoming?
It’s simultaneously funny and tragic that the folly of our ignorance doesn’t allow us to see that the elderly, too, might be on a never-ending path of becoming and that curiosity could still be introducing them to things they don’t know. Instead of greater sharing across generations, we operate in distinct and separate universes where the age of experience draws a line between us while our youth or advanced age suggests there’s no chance the other could begin to relate to us.
Time is the road, we are the vehicle, and our evolving memories are the passengers. The paths we travel are ever-present, be they dirt traces that deliver the traders of goods, invisible skyways that fly people overhead, or trails that lead us on canyon hikes. What is not so easy to see or find are the memories of others who seem to rarely encounter each other at random intersections.
Our photos can act as great signposts that show us where we’ve been but it is only the words we commit to a surface of things that can exist beyond their otherwise short lives in our heads. Once written, they might allow others to know something about who we were and how we came to perceive things the way we did.
This idea speaks volumes to what we do and don’t do to exist beyond the time when our exhausted bodies cease being the vehicles that are responsible for allowing others to meet us on the highway of life. Trinkets, photos, pieces of old clothing, wedding bands, or various possessions cannot share the person we were or knew. Just as we have taken to leaving these mementos to those who have loved us, we fail to give them an intrinsic gift of that look within us while we are still breathing.
Telling of these travels in life and where our road into our own infinity was taking us is the only trail of crumbs we might be able to offer. An exercise of writing about how we got to the places we arrived at should be part of our everyday life, just as sleeping and eating are. I’m not saying just our literal travels and explorations of places we visited but telling the story of how we came to be who we are emotionally and intellectually when wandering in our minds.
Sadly, I feel that too many of us are long defunct after having abandoned the processes where we serve a human function aside from feeding the machine of commerce, parenthood, and the expectations of others who require our affirmation of their bland conformity. Only a few of us are out here to encounter the extraordinary and rare sights that bridge eras, epochs, cultures, and the very act of trying to know anything about something.
Does it matter that you might have but one more cow among the many grazing in the meadow? Who of us raises our head out of the tightly packed herd to say, here I am? It will be the cow that constructed a monument to bovine-ness, using its cloven hoof to sculpt an object of beauty that leaves us astonished at its feat we thought impossible.
We have to leave our story to others so they might be witnesses to the monument to ourselves, allowing them to better understand who and what we were. We focus on the geniuses, celebrities, and those ordained by taste-makers to be our cultural representatives, but that tells little of the ordinary and unexceptional cogs in the machine that goes about a life living in a pasture called the city.
Have you ever left your own pasture? Did you take the uncomfortable and bumpy road where your expectations of particular creature comforts failed to meet your desires? Trying new foods, sleeping in strange beds, adapting to different weather, and talking with others who seem to speak a foreign language due to their different frames of reference can be a challenge for almost everybody. But consider the risk of being the flea on the ass of the beast next to you in the field you have always lived in before asking in your later years if you experienced anything resembling real freedom?
The contentedness of staying in place is for cattle. We are humans meant to explore not just the physical world but the options of what we want to know and believe as we encounter those who might lend affirmation to a life of intellectual uncertainty. My family without me appreciating it when I was younger, were nomads having left Germany, moving around upstate New York, heading to Florida for a while, and finally ending up in Arizona. They weren’t afraid to wander. Then, in their 80s and 90s, they wanted to see America from a different perspective, as prior to this trip, they stayed on major highways or flew to their destinations. Being out on a journey over back roads with me was an adventure that presented many new experiences to these retirees that they wouldn’t have otherwise been able to take or endure.
When I say they had to “endure” this trip, don’t think for a minute that it was always easy for them to travel so far. Sitting in place for long periods when they might want to stretch their legs. Being too hot, too cold, hungry, thirsty, or needing a bathroom in the next 10 seconds had them making compromises with creature comforts that are readily available at home. Their remaining paths in life didn’t have a long time left to travel (my grandfather had less than 12 months to go). Herbie was an inspiration to me for many a year. Ever since I was a small boy I was fascinated by him, from his work as a painter and woodworker to piloting his yacht on the Niagara River and Lake Erie. He was a giant who did stuff. In the 1970s, he had open-heart surgery, but for the next 30 years, he never slowed down. He was always up for making the sacrifices that took him out and into the new.
My Aunt Eleanor was a rock to me. She was my mother when my own 16-year-old mom couldn’t meet my demands as a teenager. Not only did Auntie care for my sister and me, but she was also caring for her own mom, my great-grandmother Josephine. As a 5-year-old boy, I could have never comprehended that my aunt loved me as much as her own mom. Auntie gave selflessly of herself and never seemed unhappy. While she didn’t marry until she was nearly 70 years old and lost her husband after only about 15 years of marriage, my great-aunt had one of the greatest dispositions of anyone I might ever know in my lifetime.
Those two are now like the trees over there on the other side of the fence; they are out of reach but not fully out of view. They live on in my heart and memories, and if I’m lucky and ever pass this way again, I hope to catch a glimpse of them. How much of who they were and precisely what they instilled in who I’ve become cannot be separated from the totality of me, but I know that there is goodness they carried that spilled into me in some small or hopefully big way. Time will tell.
Late in the day, we were driving into the sunset just as everyone does every day, but while we were closing in on dinner and a hotel, little did any of us have in mind that the last one was always on the horizon. While our time on earth allows us to perceive hints of what infinity might be, we will not be afforded the opportunity to be witness to even a fraction of what that means. Knowing the rarity of our time here, walking under such beautiful skies should never be taken for granted. Leave your routine people, and even when you can’t leave home, you can still leave the well-trodden paths in your mind and venture into the unknown. Books are a great first start if you’ve forgotten the way to see into the realms of possibility.
It’ll be dark soon enough, and when you can never see the light or find your mind illuminated by the fire of existence again, there will be no time for regrets. The story will be done, and your chapter will be finished. While we might be able to jam 100 days of experience into a single day, we cannot stuff a lifetime of existence into the final 10 minutes before we die. So, how’s your own story going?
Auntie and Grandpa Going to Florida – Day 12
In the morning, as the sun rises into blue skies, the red door of my room blazes a fiery red, reminding me that we stayed the night in Redwater, Mississippi. Just a few minutes further, and we are on the Natchez Trace Parkway. I cannot help but travel north a short way to maximize our time on this historic road that slices a path through the forest. The National Park administers the more than 440 miles of the Trace and does so admirably. Caroline and I drove the length of the Trace in the year 2000, starting in Nashville, Tennessee, its terminus, and for the next two days, we crawled slowly south to Natchez, Mississippi.
Leaving the Trace, back then, was tragic as we had wound down and decompressed. Rejoining the speed of life highway-style was a rude transition back to modernity. Joining the Trace today, I’m filled with fond memories and the thrill of excitement. Back when Caroline and I were here, we had rain and gray, but still, it is one of the top scenic drives we have taken.
Although I could easily keep on with my travel north, I turned around after 11 miles to keep us close to our loosely defined schedule. It is a beautiful sunny day to take in the details, shadows, waters, life, and sense of history along this great American scenic byway.
The Trace commemorates an ancient trail originally established by Native American tribes, the Choctaw, Chickasaw, and others. From 1785 to 1820, it found its heaviest use as the Kaintuck boatmen (rough guys who plied the waters of the Mississippi) who had gone downriver on the Mississippi and the Ohio Rivers to markets in Natchez and New Orleans made their way north again to Nashville on this path. Walking the length of the trail the men who were flush with money from selling their boat and goods dealt with swamps, thickets, forests, wild animals, bandits, and little in the way of accommodations.
Today, the swamps reflect old cypress, moss, and an often wild landscape adjoining freshly manicured grasses straddling one of America’s best-kept roads. There are interpretive trails taking visitors on educationally informative walks. Wild animals of the predatory type are long gone, a few turkeys, deer, vultures, armadillos, raccoons, and squirrels can be seen by sharp eyes. Bandits and accommodations are kept well away from the Trace, as is commercial traffic.
The Trace has a top speed of 50 miles per hour. I find it difficult today to drive much above 30mph and wish that once in my lifetime, I could walk the length of this road. There are not a lot of cars here, and only a limited number of locations for them to join the Trace. You won’t find a restaurant here or a billboard. For 444 miles, you will find the natural side of America much the way it has looked since the Trace saw its first travelers back around 8000 B.C.
Historic sites are well-marked with large signs explaining what event or reason this particular area is being recognized. We stop at a few taking the time to familiarize ourselves with some of the roadside lore.
Trees tower over us, casting shadows from the east side of the road to the west. Some trees are bright green, while others have no fresh growth yet; we are still coming out of winter. Flowers dot the grasses and spread to the edge of the forests. Bright yellows, delicate whites, and tiny purple flowers are all making an early spring appearance.
The Pearl River makes a curve along a bend of the Trace, and we are pulled towards its shore. A lonesome boat floats quietly as its sole occupant fishes on calm waters. The tranquility of the river set in this Mississippi forest acts as a great host to us travelers. Our only wish is to linger a little longer than we do.
Nothing lends itself better to feeling like you are in a primitive landscape than when coming across a flooded cypress grove. Ancient trees send roots out of the brackish water while moss creeps up the trunk towards the tops of trees, reflecting their blue sky frames in the dark mirrored surface. The scene offers the senses a jolt that keeps our minds and imaginations busy. The water-swollen bases of the trees look more like elephant feet than tree trunks, lending to the curiosity stirred up while staring into these primordial forests.
More historic signs, more trees, and more blacktop, but the road is never dull. We cross small creeks, minor roads pass over the Trace, and the noonday sun illuminates the forest floor when trees aren’t busy blocking its light. A stop to look at wildflowers offers bees and bugs sharing flowers. Near the Choctaw boundary, another stop to inspect details, I look at fresh green leaves, old brown leaves, moss, bark, and a creek with two folks wandering its waters on their own exploration.
Soon after seeing our first example of a rustic split rail fence we encounter one of the few remaining original sections of the Sunken Trace. More than eight feet deep in places from the hundreds of thousands of shoes that tamped down this trail, we move towards its edge for Auntie and Grandpa to have a view. Trees grow precariously close to the rim near the steep drop-off to the trail below. Back on the pavement, we inch closer to the end of the road.
Mount Locust was, for many a traveler the first stop on their long walk north. A primitive stand, once one of many along the Trace, is now the lone survivor. Originally built in 1780, this oldest home in Mississippi changed owners until William Ferguson took over and added a small two-story inn, allowing travelers to grab a bunk for the night. Today the old house acts as an interpretive center telling the story of the Kaintuck’s journeys.
From Mount Locust, we took an unmarked road. Down this dirt path, I drive as I’m curious to see what might be at the end of the way. A good part of the road is an original section of the Trace. Not knowing where we were going was at first ok as the trail was yet again more rustic than the paved road we had been on. After a few turns, we seemed to be crawling deeper into a thicker and thicker forest.
I am asked if I know where I am going; nope, no idea, but I am following this road we are on. The road forks, and we stay to the left. A home on the left, a home on the right, more homes, and I start to wonder just where we are. Two nervous passengers keep me alert, and I start to contemplate the idea of turning around. Having what I think is a good sense of where the paved road must be, I continue on.
Not long and we are on one of the tiny dirt road intersections that occasionally cross the Trace, now I know where those roads go. In just a few minutes, we are at the end of the Trace. It has taken us six hours to drive about 130 miles; someday, I will take twice as long.
Minutes later a historic marker brings our attention to the Jefferson Military College. A quick stop and we find out that this was Mississippi’s first educational institution of higher learning, which opened its doors on January 7, 1811. In 1818, a young ten-year-old Jefferson Davis attended the school, but in 1863, it closed its doors due to the Civil War. The college reopened in 1866 as a preparatory school until the time it permanently closed in 1964.
The entrance to the well-maintained grounds is free. Self-guided tours of the restored West Wing, the kitchen, and Prospere Hall, where interpretive exhibitions, a gift shop, and restrooms are all found. The T.J. Foster Nature Trail takes visitors through a wooded ravine, past St. Catherine’s Creek, over bridges, past Ellicott Springs, and a historic cemetery. Nice place.
Natchez, Mississippi, is one of America’s oldest cities. Founded before New Orleans, it was once the home of more millionaires than any other place on earth outside of New York City. The city is internationally known as being the home to some of the best examples of surviving antebellum homes. These are not them.
A visitor’s reception center sitting high above the banks of the Mississippi next to the bridge that takes people to and from Louisiana is a great first stop to learn about the local sights. Not only are maps available for self-guided tours to see these old historic homes but tours inside many of them are available.
If only this were a tailgate road trip with a portable cooking setup where we could have made our own boiled peanuts and cooked up some crawfish, we bought along the side of the road, this could have been so much more.
There will be no roadside cookouts doing it cajun style, but there will be dinner and a proper motel to take a rest from a busy day that, at times, I feel is more about me and my desires than the guests I’m ferrying across America’s southern states.
Auntie and Grandpa Going to Florida – Day 4
As is our routine, we have an early morning wake-up except that today the sky is blue, although we are surrounded by fog, heavy fog. North out of Lafayette to Opelousas and then right. Turning east on the 190 goes smoothly. After that, I blame poor signage in the American South for my morning repeat of the lost path, just as I’ve experienced the last couple of evenings.
The sign for Highway 105 is either too small to see or is non-existent. I have to drive for what seems like 10 miles before being able to make a U-turn and head back. There it is, a sign no bigger than a pack of matches where I turn right to drive north on the 105.
Driving next to the levy of the Atchafalaya River from Krotz Springs to Melville, we see more blue skies with only minor spots of fog. Oh no, not again, not another detour! Why couldn’t they print on the map that the ferry crossing the Atchafalaya runs between 5:00 and 8:00 a.m. and then again from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m.? Just why do we have to arrive when it’s not during those hours?
Should we go north or south? We could turn around and go back over the road we came on, or I choose the new road. I opt for new sights and drive the really long twisting detour north and then, in Simmesport, turn south to meet up with the road we should have been on.
An hour and twenty minutes of detour later, we got to where we needed to be. On the way, we took a slow drive through Simmesport, which Auntie swooned over as being a replica of her beloved Angola outside of Buffalo, New York. The family used to own a vacation cottage there next to the lake. Only my mom was missing from the picture; Auntie dearly wanted Mom to see how uncannily similar the two towns were to each other.
Ghost towns of the Southwest are not that different from ghost towns here in the South except for the mold and the way the plantlife devours things that people built. Wood is wet and rotting, concrete is now green, and rusty brown roofs fall into crumbling walls. The trash from people who have squatted in these broken homes litters the grounds with beer bottles, empty cans, and an occasional splash of graffiti scrawled on disintegrating interior walls. This is what was left of Lettsworth, Louisiana.
How long have these tattered curtains fluttered in the breeze as they seek disappearance? Whose hands sewed the once fresh, clean fabric that helped lend a sense of hominess to this dwelling that now lies empty? I try stopping at as many abandoned homes as time allows in my secret hopes of stumbling upon old memories forgotten and neglected along the road.
The town of New Roads is a nondescript, poor place on the way to the ferry taking us to St. Francisville. We are fourth in line, waiting to cross this river. The ferry is nearly visible out on the water, so we must have at least a few minutes out here. I get out to stretch my legs, scouting a location for a good photo.
It is a little too foggy again so I satisfy myself with a photo of some withered trees in the water.
Walking back to the car, the driver of a catfish delivery truck asks if I got a good photo. Not really, I tell him, though I’m unsure of exactly what I got. He says, too bad; I agree. I shared with him how amazing it was down at the water level seeing how fast the river was moving, to which he responded with: “Yep, that Mississippi gets a-moving.” Oh, I hadn’t realized that this was the Mississippi we were crossing. Well, that makes this ferry ride all the better, then.
After a few minutes, the ferry blows its horn on the opposite bank and is on its way back over here. Maybe 20 vehicles are driven on, a few more minutes pass, and we are on our way. Last year, Caroline walked across the headwaters of the Mississippi and then stood knee-deep a quarter-mile downstream; today, Auntie, Grandpa, and I cross this mighty muddy river not far from its terminus, where it spills into the Gulf of Mexico.
Into the lap of luxury is the contrast from the last town with St. Francisville here basking in the sun. This small town is a vacationer’s dream. Beautiful historic buildings with well-maintained homes, churches, and a vibrant business area all come together, working to scream at me to bring my wife back here at the first opportunity.
This is the Rosedown Plantation State Historic Site. Pressed for time due to our detours, we can’t visit the home or the gardens, and for the small entry fee, it doesn’t make sense for us to pay for a 10-minute view of the grounds. Surprise of surprises, the kindly lady at the front booth must have sensed this and allowed us to pass for free. She directed us to drive to the second driveway, where we would be able to sneak a peek at the plantation’s main home.
What a beautiful sight it was. The grounds are maintained with a focus on perfection. Flowers were in bloom, and the trees were freshly green. The original entryway to the home is a fenced-off tree-lined and -covered pathway with the house centered at the path’s end. Auntie and I fawn over its majesty while Grandpa, more in touch with his manliness, remains in quiet respect.
Now in need of a shortcut to make up for the lost time, I turn left on Louisiana 19 toward Mississippi in the hopes of getting on the 24/48 to the 98, which all looks bigger and faster than the winding roads I am currently navigating. That’s right; it happens again. I am about to detour us so we can lose even more time because this is becoming the primary means of getting to our destinations.
Outside of Wilson and just before Norwood, where we could have taken a right, we come upon two dozen cars stopped with a policeman ahead blocking traffic. Considering the traffic we have seen on these roads, this is a humongous traffic jam for this neighborhood.
Trying to be patient, we use the time for lunch. I make us each a sandwich from the food we packed just to be able to picnic along the road. Sandwiches made and nearly gone, some people have turned around and have given up on waiting. We do the same. We turn back on Louisiana 10 towards Clinton, but before we get there, it’s road construction time again.
Not too bad, just a single narrow bumpy lane for a few miles, and then it’s on to Road 67 into Mississippi. Sadly, no neat “Welcome to Mississippi” sign is seen at this tiny crossing. The first town we come to is Liberty, how fitting as we are now free to make tracks at 65 miles per hour in a nearly straight line to Hattiesburg, Mississippi.
Just as we enter town, we turn right, following the 98 to the 49 South, where Camp Shelby is situated. As I was told on the phone prior to our visit, we are not supposed to enter through the north gate. Well, the sign said this way to the museum; maybe I misunderstood the lady speaking with a heavy Southern accent over the phone. I didn’t misunderstand: we were told to turn around and go down to the southern entrance.
Camp Shelby is where Grandpa did his basic training 63 years ago before shipping out for World War II. At the time, this camp in the forest was the world’s largest tent city. Grandpa was prepared to go fight the war and ultimately shipped off to New Guinea making his way to the Philippines before coming home.
Grandpa was with the 155th Infantry Headquarters Company part of the DD (Dixie Division). He had originally come down for his first encounter with the South via a four-day train ride that delivered him here. Freshly married, my grandmother Hazel took leave of her job with Curtis Aircraft, where Grandpa also worked prior to his time in the Army, to join him until he shipped out.
The museum here houses a wonderful display of artifacts, equipment, and their environment that the soldiers back in those days would have been using. Not only World War II is featured but also how the camp contributed to World War I and its function in training troops for Korea, Vietnam, Somalia, Desert Storm, and the current War on Terrorism.
An Army baseball cap with Camp Shelby embroidered on it, along with a book about the history of this place was bought by Auntie and me to give to Grandpa as souvenirs from his trip back in time.
We need to make tracks, and without further ado, we are moving south again. Highway 90 brings us to dinner midway between Gulfport and Biloxi. Aunt Jenny’s “On the Beach” Catfish Restaurant serves up the same thing we had for dinner last night. We all love catfish, so a second time around is a natural fit. This all-you-can-eat catfish dinner might have been a bad idea because, after nine pieces, I’m feeling a bit weighed down.
We check into Days Inn after having missed the exit off the I-10, road construction, and an accident obscured the ramp so I HAVE TO DETOUR YET AGAIN!!! This tragedy is becoming a comedy of absurdity regarding how frequently it is happening to us. Why does this so rarely or maybe even never happen with Caroline as my navigator?
In the morning, we will pick up my daughter Jessica from the Corry Station Naval Training Area in Pensacola, Florida. I can’t wait for her to talk our heads off with her 195 miles per hour 140-decibel, indecipherable onslaught of mouth sounds she probably believes are words. Auntie will likely have to turn down the hearing aids while Grandpa ratchets down the pacemaker after being bombarded and adrenalized by my progeny.
One last item for the day is a big thanks going to Caroline “Onstar” Wise for the righteous restaurant, weather, and road help she is providing from her secret location in the Desert Southwest.
Across the Southern U.S. – Day 3
Awake again before dawn and on the move, we stop to admire some horses in their pasture. Why doesn’t this look like we’re next to a freeway? Because we are not. From here on, except when necessary, it is on Caroline to help us negotiate our way with the best route that allows us to avoid larger roads and highways. We may be on the move quite a bit but what we are looking at go by is equally important as to those exceptional places we have chosen to stop at on this journey.
This visit to the above-ground Broussard Cemetery was not scheduled, but it is a curiosity as none of us have ever seen such a thing. With the high water table and the low elevation here in the southern part of Louisiana, it helps to keep the dead out of the muck as they slowly turn to muck themselves. Maybe it’s morbid, but we do remember on at least one occasion when flooding in this state has released several caskets from their entombment becoming makeshift canoes taking their cargo to other places in the afterlife. I’m not exactly sure if that constitutes a spiritual journey.
Welcome to Shadows-on-the-Teche in New Iberia, Louisiana. This is a historic antebellum home and center of a plantation that at one time was home to 164 enslaved people, not the home, just the plantation. While it is certainly a part of our American history, there’s something peculiar about visiting a place that was, in effect, a concentration camp for the majority of people who lived next to a palace that housed their owners. What I find particularly unsettling is that we only see the beauty of the white owner’s life and gardens, a kind of celebration of a “better” time.
The garden abuts Bayou Teche, and today, the grounds are but a fraction of the size they were back when David Weeks built this between 1831 and 1834. Just as they were moving into their 158-acre plantation, David Weeks succumbed to an illness he’d been battling and died in August 1834 while seeking medical help. The Weeks Family originally held 3,000 acres in the area. Ultimately, the land was sold off to support descendants; too bad it wasn’t carved up and given to the slaves who worked these lands.
It costs $7.00 to visit Shadows-on-the-Teche, and tours are guided only. Our guide today was a terrific lady I’d estimate to be about 75 years old with a perfect southern twang in her voice.
The home is well preserved, with much of the furniture, clothing, letters, paintings, and dishes being the originals that were with the house more than 150 years ago. In that song of a drawl, our guide tells us about the Weeks family and that “they were packrats y’all.” Our guide’s knowledge and enthusiasm for introducing us to the history of the family was nearly more interesting than the home itself.
I’m conflicted in wanting to admire the belongings and things that were considered luxuries at the time, as they could only be had due to the spirit-breaking labor of what must have been more than one thousand slaves that fell under the family’s control. This is only a guess because with these 158 acres having about one slave per acre, I can only imagine that the other 2,842 acres must have had at least a good fraction of as many slaves as the main property.
The words and attitudes that echo in these rooms are abominations to human decency, but like we are apt to do as a country, it seems to best serve us to ignore our warts and deprivations inflicted upon others. Let’s celebrate the whitewashed version of history that lets everyone feel good about themselves, except those who are to this day second and third-class citizens and deserve far more than being pushed to the margin and told to make the best of it.
Colonnades, Spanish moss, and live oaks certainly give the area a touch of beauty.
Add a magnolia flower and my wife’s sometimes goofy face, and the world is perfect.
Then again, there is that issue of the thorny nature of her husband nearly best represented by a thistle, which is becoming a bit of a theme here on my blog: click here and here.
One last glance at Bayou Teche, and soon we’ll be at scheduled stop number two in Houma, Louisiana.
We have arrived at 1921 Seafood in Houma. This restaurant holds a special place in our hearts because it was three years ago, on Day 17 of our first cross-country trip, that Caroline and I stopped here by chance and fell in love with what we felt Louisiana cooking should be like. And wouldn’t you know it, we are too early today; they don’t open till 4:00, and it’s only 2:00. But before disappointment could set in, they asked what we might want and said they’d accommodate us. Seeing me about to take a photo of Jutta and Caroline, the woman who was helping us, handed the ladies this sign.
I don’t think Jutta knows what to make of this dish of boiled shrimp, red potatoes, and corn on the cob. She’s always kind of distant when trying new foods that are foreign to her experience until she realizes that, in fact, we wouldn’t steer her wrong, though she didn’t like the clam chowder we introduced her to back in 1996.
So here we are in the Big Easy as it is often known: New Orleans, Louisiana, as it’s known officially. The home to Mardi Gras and enough stories about drunken debauchery to fill volumes. The streets are old, the curbs broken, the bricks discolored, cast iron hangs over us, and the sky is overcast; our mood is not. New Orleans is like stepping into a dream. A city of mythic proportions that we could easily spend days exploring.
Our self-guided wandering tour starts in a nondescript little side street that we’ve been told leads to the more famous streets of the French Quarter. We first turn onto Chartres Street and take a left to Toulouse Street, followed by Royal Street and then another side street to another and then another street. Street musicians dish out humor and tragedy with a bit of music to accompany the one-liners lamenting being kicked out, cheated on, drunk, and broke. Cast-iron balconies with their hanging plants and flours have this looking just like it does on TV. Another turn and more musicians, but this band is serious, as evidenced by twin battling washboards; they are playing music you want to have fun with.
We walk toward Saint Louis Cathedral and Jackson Square after seeing on one of the local maps that the Mississippi River is directly across from the square. To our surprise and great fortune, we stumble upon Café Du Monde, which also happens to be right here on the edge of the square. The café is world-famous for its beignets which are a popular food here in New Orleans, as our line stretches behind and around and back again. Waiting for an order of those famous square French doughnuts heavily dusted with powdered sugar and a cup of their chicory coffee only takes minutes. We step out on the sidewalk in front of the café and do our best not to wear the powdered sugar.
Using the Mississippi River in New Orleans as our backdrop, it seemed like a great place for a selfie to note our short 3.5-hour stay in this historic city.
Back through Jackson Square and over to the most well-known street in New Orleans, we are on the infamous Bourbon Street. The street is closed to through traffic as the pedestrians represent too large a hazard, especially after these partying revelers have had few drinks.
This is not a street to take your family, and although Caroline points out a t-shirt that speaks to my inner road-raging idiot that elicits a solid laugh from her and me, it would most likely make a majority of parents uncomfortable. People visiting Bourbon Street are gravitating towards the music, and for good reason. In this group of ten guys, the brass section is stomping out some foot-slamming groovy tunes that are jammin’ with a hot tempo.
Turning the corner, we fall into a strange silent hole, or so it seems, after leaving the festive Bourbon Street. Walking along we take in the architecture before finding our car to leave this city. As happy as we were to be here, we are also happy to be leaving. We are in vacation mode, and for us, that means life has slowed down, and we are out to appreciate the beauty of things. New Orleans demands you jump on the truck and join the parade; we, on the other hand, want to hug trees.
On the way out of New Orleans, we fumble, trying to find a little red corner building with a sign that reads, The Praline Connection. The internet proves to be an invaluable tool in identifying tidbits of treasured information that, short of a personal recommendation, we would otherwise not learn of. The Praline Connection is one of those super finds. The claim by the author I had read prior to leaving Arizona is that these were the best pralines ever. While I double-parked next to a busy corner, Caroline ran across the street to secure our confectionery booty. Jutta doesn’t ask why we are stopping; she must know by now that my surprises never fail to deliver a smile. Once Caroline is back with the goods, an exclamation of ‘sagenhaft’ comes from the back seat. The word rolls off her tongue with an elongated first syllable and a pronounced last syllable. Sagenhaft is German for incredible. These pralines are seriously sagenhaft.
The Lake Pontchartrain Causeway is a 24-mile-long bridge, making it the longest in the world. It takes us half an hour to cross it, traveling north to join the I-10 east, taking us to Pascagoula, Mississippi. Tonight, we will stay at the La Font Inn, our second Patel Motel on this trip. A Patel Motel is one of the many motels across America owned by a Gujarati family. Hailing from the state of Gujarat in India, the Patels are the Gujarati equivalent of America’s Jones or Smith. Due to the phenomenon of so many roadside Middle of America motels now being owned by so many Patels, they have affectionately become known as “Potels.” They are also usually the cheapest motels in town.
Update: La Font Inn was torn down in 2010 and replaced by a Hilton Garden Inn.