Santa Barbara with Jutta

Visiting Uncle Woody and Aunt Ann in Santa Barbara, California

After Disneyland yesterday, we drove up to Santa Barbara to spend a little time with my Uncle Woody and Aunt Ann. They took us for German dinner, Jutta’s first German food in America, and, as usual, packed us up with a trunk full of lemons, drinks, TP, food, and miscellaneous stuff. Our visit was short, but my aunt and uncle enjoyed meeting my mother-in-law for the first time.

Jutta Engelhardt in Los Angeles, California

On the way home to Phoenix, we stopped at Tommy’s at Rampart and Beverly Boulevards, and while it is famous to Angelinos, it was Jutta’s introduction to the chili cheeseburger, and it definitely won’t be as memorable for her as for others. That might have to do with what happened just after eating her burger on the way back to the car when a man in a wheelchair offered to have his photo taken with my mother-in-law when he saw my camera and as she got into position, he offered a goose on her butt, that was first and funny enough, it elicited a good laugh.

Caroline Wise and Jutta Engelhardt in Los Angeles, California

While a typical stop for Caroline and me, my mother-in-law had no idea what boba tea was, but upon learning it was sweet, it was good enough for her, though she found the tapioca balls kind of awkward.

Mother-in-Law at Disneyland

Caroline Wise and Jutta Engelhardt at Disneyland in California

Up early on Saturday and second in line at the gate waiting for the park to open at 8:00, this was Jutta’s first time going to Disneyland. Our first ride was on an old-fashioned car that delivered us to the top of Main Street and then we walked over to Pirates of the Caribbean.

Jutta Engelhardt with Tigger at Disneyland in California

After riding Winnie the Pooh, Tigger embraced Jutta, letting me snap this nice picture.

Caroline Wise and Jutta Engelhardt at Disneyland in California

Meet Dumbo, Eeyore, and the wicked mother-in-law.

Jutta Engelhardt at Disneyland in California

To be honest, here, Caroline was of the opinion that we were probably wasting our time taking Jutta to Disneyland as this “Isn’t really her thing.” Well, put a churro and Mickey Mouse ears on anybody and they’ll be a convert.

Jutta Engelhardt at Disneyland in California

We can’t really know if Jutta was really happy here but that smile while riding a horse on the carousel sure seems legit to me.

Caroline Wise, Jutta Engelhardt and John Wise at Disneyland in California

Maybe she was just enjoying hanging out with us and is able to put it on, but if you knew my mother-in-law, she’s a terrible actress so I have to go with the idea that she blended right in at the Happiest Place on Earth.

A Weekend with Jutta

Jutta and Caroline standing in front of the Welcome to California state shield near Blythe and the Arizona border.

On the way to California for the weekend, we pass the Welcome to California state shield near Blythe and the Arizona border. We are going to Disneyland on Saturday, much to Caroline’s surprise.

Caroline Wise and Jutta Engelhardt at Hadley Orchard in California

On the way over, we had to stop for a break, that kind of break, and seeing we were here, why not pick up some yummy dates at Hadley’s? For dinner, we ate at Mix Bowl Cafe, our absolute favorite Thai food place we have ever been to. Mix Bowl is a neon-lit, pop music-filled, late-night joint we stumbled upon years ago, located at 1520 Indian Hill Blvd in Pomona, California. Overnight, we stayed at the Anaheim Stardust as we have on many previous occasions.

Jutta On The Road – Day 16

Jacob Lake restaurant at the North Rim of the Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona

Disclaimer: This blog entry wasn’t written until 17 years after the trip. It should be noted that it was a huge mistake to have not written it way back when. Sometimes, after writing so much about other days, it happens that at the time directly after the trip (or even during), I convince myself that the details are not that important. Years later, these details are that important, and pulling them out of foggy memories is difficult. The photos help and often leave clues, and then Caroline’s memories are usually far clearer than mine. With that said, here goes.

Here, we are approaching the conclusion of an incredibly ambitious, maybe overly ambitious, trip that took in 9 states over 16 days. Our overnight was at Jacob Lake Inn, where we snagged a cabin; we were about to have breakfast at their restaurant.

Jutta Engelhardt and Caroline Wise at the North Rim of the Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona

Under incredibly clear skies, we are driving down to the north rim here in the Grand Canyon National Park, our 14th National Park or Monument of this trip.

North Rim of the Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona

Talk about choosing the right day to be here.

North Rim of the Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona

The south rim looks like it’s a stone’s throw away, while the San Francisco Peaks over in Flagstaff are about 60 miles away as the crow flies but about 200 by car.

North Rim of the Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona

You might notice that we were not out here for sunrise, nor will we be on hand for sunset, which is all okay as there’s no small amount of exhaustion going on. Then again, this kind of visibility is outrageous.

North Rim of the Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona

While this side of the Grand Canyon is not as busy as the south rim, how we calculated our arrival when absolutely nobody else was here will have to remain a mystery.

North Rim of the Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona

As I said, no one else is here with us.

North Rim of the Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona

Just us and this tree.

Jutta Engelhardt and Caroline Wise at the North Rim of the Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona

As I stop to really look at this photo of mother and daughter, I’m realizing that there are more photos of these two together in the United States than were ever taken of them in Germany where they were born and Jutta still lives.

Vermillion Cliffs area northern Arizona

We are now on our way home; if only that were our home over there.

Vermillion Cliffs area northern Arizona

The Vermillion Cliffs area of our state of Arizona is one of our great treasures, but rarely, if ever, have I heard anyone else mention them.

Navajo Bridge over the Colorado River and the Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona

From here, we’ll turn south and, in about 4 hours, be pulling into the driveway of the place we live. Here is the Navajo Bridge.

The Colorado River and the Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona

Both the new and the old Navajo Bridges cross the Colorado River. The old one is now only used for foot traffic while foot traffic is forbidden on the newer road bridge.

So, as I wrote in my disclaimer in the previous days’ posts, these entries have been written between 15 and 17 years after the events of the days covered. There was indeed a two-year gap in finishing the writing and photo prep due to losing track of working on this sequence, with other things grabbing my attention, but now they are done. While lacking the granular details, I’d like to have reminisced with, at least we now have a comprehensive visual record with minor tidbits brought to the blog, which will allow a greater chance of us stumbling into the images than when they sit in storage on a hard drive. Writing today, I think back to when my mother-in-law still had the ability to join us for such grueling adventures and wish we could share these old memories with her, but she’s in assisted living these days, and cognitive issues limit her ability to follow what she’s looking it on a computer or phone screen. Another reminder to do the things with those you love when they can be fully enjoyed and then celebrated for years into the future.

Jutta On The Road – Day 15

Mokee Dugway in southern Utah

Disclaimer: This blog entry wasn’t written until 17 years after the trip. It should be noted that it was a huge mistake to have not written it way back when. Sometimes, after writing so much about other days, it happens that at the time directly after the trip (or even during), I convince myself that the details are not that important. Years later, these details are that important, and pulling them out of foggy memories is difficult. The photos help and often leave clues, and then Caroline’s memories are usually far clearer than mine. With that said, here goes.

There is no swinging steak and eggs for breakfast at the Mexican Hat Lodge, and Monument Valley is not on the itinerary for this trip, so we are heading into new territory on Jutta’s behalf. Regarding the weather, no worries. I’ve looked ahead in my photos and see that we’ll be enjoying blue skies later in the day, but for now, we have drama above.

Jutta Engelhardt and Caroline Wise on the Mokee Dugway in southern Utah

There’s also the matter of drama in our backsides as we drive up this narrow gravel road known as the Mokee Dugway, which, while beautiful, is fraught with nail-biting fear as the edge of oblivion is always too close for comfort. Yep, it’s cold and windy up here at this overlook, and Jutta’s thin little cardigan ain’t cutting it.

Fry Canyon Lodge in southern Utah

We used to take photos of places as reminders with the idea that one day, we’d return and stay at that place. Well, it turns out that Fry Canyon Lodge was closed for renovations, except those renovations would never end or maybe never begin because it never opened again.

On the way to Lake Powell, Utah

There’s a river out there, a mighty and great river.

Colorado River flowing to Lake Powell in Utah

It’s called Colorado.

Upper end of Lake Powell in Utah

Little did we know that the era of Lake Powell reaching all the way up here to the Hite Marina was well over. Across the way, on the right, you might be able to make out the boat ramp, obviously, it no longer reaches the water. The bleached rock was underwater just a few years before, but in 2002, the lake level dropped too far.

Plant flowering in southern Utah

Reminder to self: not all views must be vistas and dramatic horizons; there are spectacles closer to us if we slow down and check out what’s around us.

Approaching Capitol Reef National Park in Utah

We’ll continue on Utah State Route 95 a ways further as our destination is mostly to the west.

Jutta Engelhardt and Caroline Wise at Capitol Reef National Park in Utah

No, Jutta didn’t just go and get tough; it was warming up by the time we reached the Capitol Reef National Park.

Capitol Reef National Park in Utah

With water flowing through the park, we’d be extra cautious as it’s been drilled into Caroline and me regarding the threat of flash floods. We are far too timid to risk something like being caught by one.

Capitol Reef National Park in Utah

So, instead, we’ll take the high road.

Capitol Reef National Park in Utah

The really high road overlooking the entirety of Earth!

Capitol Reef National Park in Utah

Oh my god, I don’t know if I can drive over that. Both sides fall off at such an angle that only death can result from leaving the road. Why are there no guardrails on this ridge? My plan was to look way out there and ensure I wouldn’t see one other car ahead of us and then drive right down the yellow stripe, and that worked I can only hope I never have to drive this again in my life.

Capitol Reef National Park in Utah

Well, if this is the reward for maneuvering the precarious tiny slice of road, maybe it was worth it.

Somewhere between Capitol Reef and Bryce National Park's in Utah

I’ll bet a dollar that before engine-driven water pumping all the beauty in the world didn’t make up for how hard it was to farm out here. Now that we can extract every drop of fresh water from below our feet, you can bet that’s just what we’ll do.

Jutta Engelhardt at Bryce National Park in Utah

National Park number two is right here at Bryce. Years ago, when we first brought Jutta through the area, we only got as far as Zion, so now we’re closing the loop.

Bryce National Park in Utah

It’s late in the day when we got here, which you can easily tell by the shadows, huh? So there will be no hikes into the hoodoos, but then again, nobody would ever expect that of us as we race across the United States, the entire western United States.

Caroline Wise and John Wise at Bryce National Park in Utah

Sometimes, a selfie with just the two of us reminds us that we are here together, which can easily be lost when Jutta and Caroline try to spend as much quality time together as possible while taking in a million new sights and experiences.

Jutta On The Road – Day 14

Jutta Engelhardt and Caroline Wise on the Durango & Silverton Steam Train in Colorado

Disclaimer: This blog entry wasn’t written until 17 years after the trip. It should be noted that it was a huge mistake to have not written it way back when. Sometimes, after writing so much about other days, it happens that at the time directly after the trip (or even during), I convince myself that the details are not that important. Years later, these details are that important, and pulling them out of foggy memories is difficult. The photos help and often leave clues, and then Caroline’s memories are usually far clearer than mine. With that said, here goes.

My mother-in-law might be old, but she’s not that old, meaning that this is her first steam engine train ride, and she had to come all the way to America for the experience. Like so many people, as they grow older, Jutta finds herself to be cold while the rest of us are comfortable. Knowing this, we bought her a new sweater while we were in Yellowstone so she could give up my old Jackson Hole sweater she’s been monopolizing. The first big sweater she acquired in the United States also came from a National Park, Zion, and it was a nice deep green.

Durango & Silverton Steam Train in Colorado

We are on the Durango-to-Silverton Narrow Gauge Steam Train en route north from Durango to, you can guess it, Silverton. The trip is three and a half hours long each way, with a two-hour stopover for lunch. We could have opted for a speedier coach ride back, but we love the experience out here. The cost of the roundtrip is $62 per adult and $31 per child. (As I add to this entry in 2022, yep, this paragraph above was part of the original post; the price of the open gondola car is now $115 per adult)

Jutta Engelhardt on the Durango & Silverton Steam Train in Colorado

It’s called a gondola, but I can’t help but think of it as the cattle car with shade. Why are we all the way back here instead of up in first class? We are cheap, but that’s not the only reason; I like the idea of being able to jump back and forth from side to side for photos without asking someone to use their window. Then there’s also the benefit of feeling the mountain air and being bathed in the soot from the burning coal.

Durango & Silverton Steam Train in Colorado

This is a perfect example of what I just explained as I’m obviously now on the left side of the train admiring the view from the opposite side…as if by magic.

Durango & Silverton Steam Train in Colorado

There’s a lot to see out here, and while the train moves along at a relatively slow pace, you must be ready at all times if you want to capture some of the best sights.

Durango & Silverton Steam Train in Colorado

We were just on the road that passed all of this yesterday, and yet the world looks distinctly different from this perspective.

Durango & Silverton Steam Train in Colorado

Pulling into Silverton.

It was getting late when we pulled in yesterday for dinner at the Black Bear Cafe, and as we still needed to check into our room, we wasted no time and ate before jumping back in the car to continue south. Today, we have two full hours here.

Jutta Engelhardt at Handlebars Saloon in Silverton, Colorado

Lunch was at the Handlebars Saloon, which comes with plenty of Western flair for a sweet German lady who I think still pinches herself that she’s doing any of this.

Durango & Silverton Steam Train in Colorado

See that blown-out cloud? I was still shooting jpegs instead of RAW due to storage demands and processing requirements. We were traveling so much, and often, when my mother-in-law was here, we’d select a bunch of photos before she returned to Germany, get them printed, and pack them up with her for the flight home. Shooting RAW wouldn’t have allowed this convenience, and also, of note, the software for processing RAW, along with the slow CPU, crap operating system, and expensive hard drives, all conspired to dissuade me from opting for the better quality. Now, all these years later, you can be sure I regret it.

Durango & Silverton Steam Train in Colorado

Leaving the small mining town of Silverton behind.

Durango & Silverton Steam Train in Colorado

It seems there was a high level of confidence that this river corridor wasn’t prone to flooding; otherwise, whose idea was it to put this narrow train track right here?

Durango & Silverton Steam Train in Colorado

You might think sitting at the far back of the train is disadvantageous. Obviously, it’s not – while I may not see where we are going, I have the best view of where we’ve been.

Rafting the Animas River next to the Durango & Silverton Steam Train in Colorado

I don’t believe I was aware of it at the time, but we could have taken the train to Silverton and rafted the Animas River back to Durango, not that I would have been all that comfortable with my mother-in-law putting her back into paddling whitewater. Heck, I don’t know if I had the guts at that time.

Durango & Silverton Steam Train in Colorado

Almost back to town, where we’ll collect the car and start our drive west.

Somewhere between Durango, Colorado and Mexican Hat, Utah

Also, in the area in Mesa Verde National Park, which we didn’t have time to visit this time, and maybe as interesting is the lesser-known Ute Mountain Tribal Park that we are passing.

Somewhere between Durango, Colorado and Mexican Hat, Utah

Sunset over the Old West can only mean one thing.

Mexican Hat Lodge in southern Utah

That means that dinner must be under the stars and include a good portion of cowboy beans. The Mexican Hat Lodge serves up just that, along with the world-famous swinging steak. Mexican Hat is located between Valley of the Gods and Monument Valley; a better place to stay and eat cannot be found.