Hippies

John Wise and Caroline Engelhardt in San Francisco, California 1991

Just as I jammed through our negatives over the weekend, I’ve started scanning our horde of memorabilia that we’ve been stockpiling in case of a cultural apocalypse. Seeing it’s time to replenish the supplies I’m getting busy tossing the old moldy stuff to make space for new junk.

The guy on the left is John Wise circa January 1992 and the woman is still pretty recognizable except back then she wasn’t a Mrs. Wise yet, she was Caroline Elisabeth Engelhardt. Little did we know back then that not only would this be Caroline’s first trip to America, first time wearing contact lenses so she could look cool in sunglasses like her hippy boyfriend, we would also end up going through a meat grinder of tumultuous relationship ups and downs before kissing to make up at the end of the year with a trip to Paris to visit EuroDisney for Caroline’s 25th birthday. The year 1992 was certainly memorable with my dad having his second heart attack, my paternal grandfather’s passing, my friend Tom McNamara overdosed on heroin and died in a hedge next to a bank drive-thru, I learned a lot about myself, lived in a peculiar situation loaded with deprivations that are better left forgotten, yet still kind of interesting in how weird it all was, and yet we closed out the year in blissful love.

These moments are being cataloged as such: there’s a category of topics on your right and “moments” is one of them. I’ll be posting stuff and backdating it all so it falls sequentially into my blog, such as this and probably something or other about that night Caroline and I filmed Nirvana in Hanau at a club called Kuba in November 1989 along with other choice fragments of our lives together and before we ever met. From time to time I’ll post something here at the front of my blog drawing attention that I’ve completed a year, maybe with a preview of some of the highlights.

This particular photo was obviously shot in San Francisco and was taken by some merchant who printed it and put it in a keepsake GIANT keychain.

Los Angeles – Day 2

John Wise at Repetto Grade School in Monterey Park, California

Forty-seven years ago, I lived in Monterey Park, California, after moving here from Long Beach, California, and prior to that Buffalo, New York. Repetto was where I attended the 2nd grade; if I did any of the first grade here, I have no recollection. At the end of our school year back in 1971, we moved to flat land in West Covina because the Sylmar earthquake in February of that year freaked out my parents, who thought our house would slide down the hillside we were living on.

Kim Kee Noodle Cafe in Monterey Park, California

Pork kidneys are what brought us through Monterey Park this morning. On my quest to find new experiences for this short getaway, I found a popular breakfast place that specializes in kidneys on everything. We are at Kim Kee Noodle Cafe on Garvey Avenue, and this is my dish: egg noodles with shrimp and kidney. Maybe you wonder if I particularly enjoy pig kidneys? Well, the truth is I’ve never tried them, so why not go large and order them up for breakfast?

Caroline Wise at Kim Kee Noodle Cafe in Monterey Park, California

Caroline also had some of my dish, and I had some of hers. She opted for congee with century egg. Let me tell you about this specialty that was a first for the two of us: century eggs, also known as preserved eggs, are an interesting food item from Asia that traditionally was made by placing duck or chicken eggs in a mixture of clay, ash, salt, quicklime, and rice hulls for several weeks to several months until they are properly transformed. The egg’s white has a gelatinous translucent appearance and texture while the yolk was a greenish grey with a pungent flavor. The congee itself was rather bland to me, but with a splash of soy to add a bit of salt, it pepped right up. Served alongside the congee was fried bread. Sadly, we didn’t realize that bread was supposed to go into the congee, so we just took a few bites and left it at that. At least now we know better for future rice porridge breakfasts!

Kim Kee Noodle Cafe in Monterey Park, California

When I went to pay our bill (the Noodle Cafe is cash only, which required me to run down the block to the nearest ATM), the cashier, seeing my camera, insisted I take her picture, which, of course, I had to oblige. Our breakfast was an experience to remember, and lucky for us, I’ve mostly gotten over my sense of being squeamish about things I’ve not tried. Rarely a month goes by recently that Caroline doesn’t bring up the idea of eating insects; I can see them in our future and ultimately on our plates.

Freeway off-ramp in Los Angeles, California

Out of the San Gabriel Valley and into downtown Los Angeles.

Grand Central Market in Los Angeles, California

We are at the Grand Central Market for a coffee, some blogging, and waiting to meet up with a couple of people.

John Wise, Scott Jaeger, and Tirdad in Los Angeles, California

Those couple of people are Scott Jaeger and his friend Tirdad. These two owned their own music labels years ago when they first met; Tirdad now lives near Washington D.C. and came in to meet with Scott and attend last night’s concert, and Scott, if I hadn’t mentioned it, is from the Seattle area. Funny that we keep meeting in loud, busy locations that make communication a little bit strained. Hopefully, one day, we’ll be able to sit down in a quiet setting and talk for a minute, though if our next get-together is at Superbooth in Berlin, the chance of finding a noise-free environment is practically nil. Come to think about it, maybe meeting in noise is more poetically appropriate.

Hertz Donut MK3 from Industrial Music Electronics - Beta Version

Scott brought this thing for me to test its firmware. This “thing” is the beta version of the updated Hertz Donut Eurorack module, which has the specific function of being an oscillator. Nothing from Scott can be defined with a simple description, as his work is specialized in complexity and a brand of being obtuse, allowing for the discovery of what is not apparent. The Hertz Donut was originally inspired by the Buchla 259 Complex Waveform Generator and the subsequent Buchla 259e Twisted Waveform Generator.

After our return to Phoenix, I’ll be able to plug this in and power it up. My guess from previous work with his modules is that I’ll need half a day to begin feeling like I’m starting to understand some basics and then a few more days to realize I knew nothing. On my way, I will have the great fortune of being the first to discover just a fraction of what this voice will have to offer and hopefully help him smooth some of the rough spots and ensure there are no bugs that would hamper people playing with the Hertz Donut to its potential.

Itay and Rotem in Los Angeles, California

With no time to spare, we had to leave downtown L.A. and head over to Hollywood, where, for the first time in nearly a year, we were meeting up with Rotem and Itay Braverman. They moved out of Phoenix almost exactly a year ago and decided it was a great idea to live in the nutty swarm of constant motion and perpetual insanity that is Los Angeles. Due to this being a nearly last-minute trip to California, we were reluctant to impose on them, so prior to our departure Friday, we didn’t reach out, but then, late yesterday, while driving through Hollywood, I decided to call Itay.

His enthusiasm in hearing we were in his neighborhood was immediately apparent; he wanted us to come right over, but we were on our way downtown to the concert, so we agreed to meet today around noon. It was terrific seeing these two Arizona/Israel ex-pats and hearing about their adventure in the madness they’ve found here. After a thousand miles an hour tromp into all things cultural, technological, social, and bureaucratic, our brief visit was all too soon over as we had another scheduled event on our calendar. We said our goodbyes, exchanged hugs and were happy to hear their great enthusiasm for having us stay with them on our next visit.

Bill Pickett Invitational Rodeo in Los Angeles, California

Down the freeway and back to the east, we’re in the City of Industry, where we already had tickets for the Bill Pickett Invitational Rodeo. This unique event is America’s only touring black rodeo and is sometimes called “The Greatest Show on Dirt.”

Caroline Wise at the Bill Pickett Invitational Rodeo in Los Angeles, California

The rodeo celebrates America’s black cowboys and cowgirls, and once again, Caroline and I find ourselves the recipients of the greatest of fortunes in being in attendance for yet another incredible cultural event. The lady on the right was part of the Grand Entry at the beginning of the festivities and shared with us some interesting details about what was going on in the arena.

Bill Pickett Invitational Rodeo in Los Angeles, California

The Bill Pickett Invitational Rodeo got underway back in 1984 and was created by Lu Vason after attending a rodeo where there wasn’t one black cowboy, though America has a long history of black cowboys. While everyone knew Will Rogers, not many knew of the cowboy Bill Pickett. So it was that the guy who is credited with creating the Pointer Sisters went on to move from entertainment to education by bringing the history of this part of America to the masses.

Bill Pickett Invitational Rodeo in Los Angeles, California

Bill Pickett was born in Texas back in 1870. He’s the originator of a move called “Bulldogging,” where the cowboy leaps off his horse onto the back of a steer and drags it to a stop. Today, that move is called Steer Wrestling, but it was Bill Pickett who first executed that daring feat. Today black cowboys and cowgirls are alive and well, coming from all corners of America, including Compton here in the Los Angeles area to Florida on the east coast.

Bill Pickett Invitational Rodeo in Los Angeles, California

Should you find yourself in Oakland or Los Angeles, California, Washington D.C., Atlanta, Georgia, Memphis, Tennessee, or Denver, Colorado, during one of the events, do yourself and your family a favor and go.

Bill Pickett Invitational Rodeo in Los Angeles, California

There is one not-so-positive note about this weekend I’d like to share, though it is a bit of a downer to me. There were very few white people at today’s event. Caroline and I did not attend because of any particular connectivity to black people but because this was something uncommon that we’d likely not see in Phoenix, Arizona. Los Angeles is an intensely diverse city, and it simply feels like there should be enough cross-cultural curiosity that would have drawn in a more diverse crowd. As with our visits to Cafe Gunul 2 on Friday night, Bon Juk on Saturday morning, and Kim Kee Noodle Cafe this morning, we were again the only white people.

We’ve seen this before at the San Pedro Fish Market, where the majority of visitors are Hispanic, or Mix Bowl in Pomona, where during our first dozen visits, we were the only whites, and then Ten Ren’s Tea Time in Rowland Heights is super popular with Japanese customers but seemingly not with Anglo-Saxons. While these businesses and events are allowed to operate freely, and they themselves are inclusive, the community at large sometimes feels segregated.

San Gabriel Valley in California

While this is an extraordinarily beautiful day here in L.A., this is not the first time we’ve seen the mountains this clearly. I’m pointing this out because this was a rare view when I was growing up right out in the middle of this view. Straight ahead and slightly to the left is the city of West Covina, where I spent the majority of my childhood.

Caroline Wise and John Wise at the West Covina Police Department in California

Nostalgia has pulled me back to West Covina on more than a few occasions, and today, our stop was somewhere I’d never brought Caroline before: the West Covina Police Station. Back when I was 13 or 14, I entertained the idea of being a police officer and so I looked at joining the Explorers Program where I could learn about what it was like to have such a career. Puberty and punk rock intruded into that naive and innocent young boy’s life, and my opportunity to wear a blue uniform was never realized. Across from the station was city hall, the library I’d visited a thousand times, and the city court where I’d go sit in on cases as people explained their drunk driving, speeding, petty crimes, and occasionally an assault or other serious crime. We were just spending some extra time out here until our next date.

Pacific Dining Car in Los Angeles, California

As we drove away from Hollywood earlier, we were not more than three minutes down the road when it occurred to me that we didn’t have fixed plans for after the rodeo, so I called Itay and Rotem back and asked if they’d join us for dinner, and they accepted. Prior to leaving Phoenix, I was scouring the web looking for late-night eats for our arrival Friday night. One of the places that showed up on a number of lists was this Los Angeles icon that’s been open 24/7 since 1921 called Pacific Dining Car. The place is made up like a train’s luxury dining car from back in the day. Seemed like a relatively safe bet, and in addition to feeding us, we’d earn bragging rights to having eaten at this “famous” stop in L.A.

Itay Braverman, Caroline Wise, John Wise, and Rotem Braverman in Los Angeles, California

Dinner itself was okay, nothing to really celebrate, but cheesily adequate. My guess is that this place will be lucky to celebrate its 100th birthday as not only is it rather expensive, but its style of feeding people seems to have already disappeared from many other locales. Our desserts were amazing, but at $14 each, they better be. With that said, should you be in L.A. I could probably recommend Pacific Dining Car for that 3:00 in the morning craving for filet mignon and eggs instead of Jack-in-the-Box, but for a regular dinner, not so much.

Los Angeles – Day 0

Caroline Wise and John Wise in Banning, California

It’s Day Zero because it’s a travel day. We won’t have much time to do anything besides driving the 381 miles to our motel in Los Angeles. Of course, we had to get gas before leaving Arizona so we could minimize how much we have to buy in California because it’s almost a dollar a gallon more here, though why should that matter with our Prius as it’s gonna set us back like $9 which is not exactly the biggest expense we’ll have this weekend. And then there’s the coffee we’ll need in Blythe. It was an iced coffee, as it’s a toasty 110 degrees there next to the Colorado River.

Cafe Gunul 2 in Rowland Heights, California

Looking for restaurants that were open late Friday night, I found this highly recommended Korean fusion place a few miles before our motel called Cafe Gunul 2. The lively little joint in a strip mall had about a five-minute wait, and the first thing we noticed was that we were the only Anglos in sight. I’d already read about some favorites and so that’s what we went for.

First up was the “Flaming Mac’n Cheese’n Corn’n Hot Cheetos,” which is one of the greatest comfort foods we have ever experienced. Of course, both of our hearts nearly stopped beating almost in unison as they balked at feeding these over 50-year-old blood-moving machines a diet rich in fat, grease, and crunchy, gooey yumminess that should probably only be eaten by healthy 20-year-olds who still have time to repair their arteries.

Cafe Gunul 2 in Rowland Heights, California

The owner of Cafe Gunul 2 did all the artwork in his restaurant, and while these small panels are pretty good, his larger wall-height pieces are as amazing as his food.

Cafe Gunul 2 in Rowland Heights, California

If you think we might be overdosing on carbs here as you see this plate of “Tato Lover Kimchi Bacon Fries,” you’d still be missing part of the picture as we also split an order of “Da Best Kimchi Pasta Ever,” which, besides the Kimchi, it is based on a carbonara recipe. Did we finish it all? No damn way.

Caroline Wise in Hacienda Heights, California

Our “cheapo” room at Motel 6 wasn’t all that cheap really at $100 a night, but it is summer and the last weekend of Outfest – an LGBTQ Film Festival that is going on for 11 days this year. That reminds me of the year we visited Disneyland during Gay Days and saw the stunned look of mid-westerners on what was probably their once-in-a-lifetime big trip to California and finding the Happiest Place on Earth also being the Gayest Place on Earth for a weekend. Gotta say that Caroline and I both love the diversity that is found in this state.

Tomorrow is the official start to our extended three-day weekend, where we are trying not to visit anywhere we’ve been before, which means none of our favorites.

One Day Arizona Road Trip

Caroline Wise and John Wise on the 303 Loop in North Phoenix, Arizona

Recently, we did some serious road-tripping across Europe, but we’ve been neglecting our corner of the woods here in Arizona, so it was time to head out and retrace some steps. Back on August 12, 2001, we drove out from home towards Wickenburg to explore some roads we’d not driven on before. These days, that’s almost impossible due to our diligence in keeping track of what roads we’d driven so that on our next venture out, we’d hit a new road or two. Our map is now mostly full of black traces that followed our travels, and then in 2010, we started a new map of Arizona to revisit a bunch of places we’d not been to in nearly ten years. Well, the Grand Canyon rafting trip, authoring a book, a couple of trips to Europe, a couple more trips up to Alaska for some white water rafting up there, and it seems like we neglected our own backyard. Today, we broke that cycle.

The strange look and Caroline’s laughter came about after more than a dozen attempts to get a properly lit photograph in the car. We used to take selfies (mostly when driving), and they mostly turned out; today, I was having serious issues with them turning out too dark. Maybe things were complicated by the fact that I was using a lens not used for this type of photo, as I’m being relegated to using a 10-22mm super-wide-angle lens as my 17-55mm f/2.8 is over in California with Canon getting repaired after nearly falling to bits during our trip to Europe last month. So, without further ado, come with us to retrace a leg of that 2001 trip as we also get to add a short bit of Arizona road we’ve never traveled on before.

Hassayampa River Preserve in Wickenburg, Arizona

We’d been through Wickenburg prior to 2001 on a trip to Las Vegas, where we also got our first Arizona speeding ticket somewhere in the mid-’90s, but today, we were looking to leave Highway 93 as we had 17 years prior, and before that turn-off, we needed to stop at Hassayampa River Preserve. Just as we did back then, we stopped by to peek inside and realized that we needed to make a proper visit. During that stop, we did not have time to properly explore the place so we made a mental note to return someday. It turned out that we came back the next week, on August 19, 2001, on the way to Lake Havasu, Oatman, and Williams. I don’t think we’ll be back in a week this time, but we would certainly like to explore the place again.

Caroline Wise at Tastee Freez in Wickenburg, Arizona

An on-again-off-again tradition of stopping at the Tastee Freez in Wickenburg for a soft serve. Even at 10:30 in the morning, when the temperature is over 90 degrees, you only have so much time to start eating your ice cream before it drips all over your hand.

Congress, Arizona

Our turn-off was supposed to take us to Congress, and sure enough, it did, but not the Congress, Arizona, we knew. Seventeen years ago, we passed a small trading post, a defunct hotel, a veggie/junk stand, and a building that stood right here called the Congress Mercado. Due to the lack of much of anything else besides the railroad tracks across the street, we had the impression that these four buildings made up Congress and that it was a ghost town. Well, it turns out there are a bunch of buildings across the tracks and more population than we’d realized. There is some new construction and even a restaurant that we got a recommendation for from the ranger at the Hassayampa River Preserve called Nichols West Restaurant run by an English guy who is supposed to make a great sandwich. Another place was put on the list for a future visit.

Green Frog Rock in Congress, Arizona

Well, the Green Frog Rock is still there on the side of the road, phew.

Congress, Arizona

Driving up the mountain to higher elevations and hopefully cooler weather. That’s a feedlot right in front of us in the distance, while Congress is off the right of center.

Yarnell, Arizona

We weren’t sure what we’d find here in Yarnell as back in 2013, almost to the day, 19 firefighters lost their lives battling a fire called the Yarnell Hill Fire. The town and the surrounding areas have recovered visually, though I’m sure the scars of losing the majority of the Granite Mountain Hotshots still weigh on many people in the community.

Yarnell, Arizona

As I wrote about that past from 17 years ago, the hotel is long closed, and I wondered how long the sign would last. Well, part of it is gone, and the paint is mostly gone, too. I don’t know why it’s sad to see this kind of stuff fade away, but it is.

Kirkland, Arizona

Up to Kirkland, we find that the town post office is now long closed, but the Kirkland Bar & Steakhouse and Hotel is still open.

Kirkland, Arizona

Sadly we couldn’t get a steak as they don’t start serving those until 4:00 p.m., but we were able to get a couple of German sausages with peppers and onions and a small salad. Herb, the owner and rancher, along with having been a former miner down in Bisbee, Arizona, has been at this for about 27 years now and is looking for someone to buy his place that’s on the National Historic Register. I’d still like to try a steak up here someday.

Skull Valley, Arizona

Following our original itinerary, we are now driving through Skull Valley. Nice to see the General Store is still open, but the full-service gas station across the road that was open back during our first visit seems to now be a gift shop with one decorative old-timey pump on display instead of three real working old pumps at the ready. Everything changes.

Jerome, Arizona

Jerome has certainly changed over the years. Back in 1981, on my first visit, there was nearly nothing still open in this old mining town that, in many ways, was a ghost town. There was the old and fairly run-down Ghost City Inn that has been renovated three times since then, but back in the early ’80s, it was easy to simply pass through town and continue down the hill.

Jerome, Arizona

Today, Jerome is a hopping destination enlivened with a ton of restaurants, wine tasting, art boutiques, and live music, while on busier days, you’ll be hard-pressed to find parking.

Jerome, Arizona

This is toward the end of town, where we found parking. On these two one-way streets up the hill, you’ll find the majority of Jerome’s establishments perched on the steep terrain. While the bordellos are long gone, the character of this old mining town lives on in the slice of Bohemia the locals are keeping alive.

Cherry, Arizona

At the beginning of this blog entry, I wrote of a small bit of road we’ll explore that we’ve never been on. This is but one corner of the 11 miles of steep and narrow dirt road with minor washboards that we had to climb into the mountains to a small “town” we’d never even heard of.

Cherry, Arizona

Over a hundred years ago, Cherry was a stop on the old stagecoach route between Prescott and Fort Verde. Today, it is a picturesque retreat I don’t think many people even know exists. While there’s supposed to be a Cherry Springs Water company up here, we couldn’t find any sign of it, though the Cherry Creek Lodge is open in its idyllic corner of the world. While on the pricey side, starting at $100 a night, they are the only lodging for miles around, and if solitude is what you are looking for, it will certainly be found here.

Update: by 2023, the property was no longer a BnB but is now a lodge, and the rates start at $290 a night with a minimum two night stay.

Cherry, Arizona

The cemetery is towards the end of town (if you come up the dirt road to the north instead of the recommended paved road to the south as we did), and next to it is the volunteer fire department. There are maybe a couple few dozen homes up here and it is beautiful.

Down in Black Canyon City, we stopped for dinner next to the freeway for some BBQ, and as expected, it was pretty mediocre. The day though, was spectacular, and it was great to step away from the computers, synthesizers, and looms that too easily become routines hard to break out of.

Engelhardts – Europe Day 21

Dawn in Frankfurt, Germany

The clock reads 4:45 in the morning and we’ve already been awake 30 minutes now. While we went to sleep at midnight, Katharina arrived home after we had already gone to bed; how she’s awake right now is beyond me. And then I remember, “We, too, were young once and could just keep on going.”

Dawn in Frankfurt, Germany

When you live in the inner city of Frankfurt, this is an unknown site as the narrow streets and compact structure of the architecture don’t offer many panoramic views of the sky. Katharina’s idea to go out early to photograph the rising sun at daybreak was a perfect way for us to begin our last full day in the Frankfurt area.

Sunrise in Frankfurt, Germany

And there it is, our sun. It’s almost a sad thought to think of how few times in my ten years living here that I saw this sight while in America, I’ve seen it hundreds of times. Back in the years, I was living here, we would often go to sleep well after the sun had already risen and nearly cursed it for waking the birds while we tried to get some sleep after an impossible night of hard partying. You might say that in those closing years of the ’80s into the mid-’90s, I was more interested in the artificial sunrise brought on by a kind of inebriation that lent itself to also witnessing a menagerie of fantastical life and mathematics brought to spatial illumination out of the dark recesses of a curious mind.

Caroline Wise, Katharina, and Klaus Frankfurt, Germany

Smiling faces on an early Saturday morning shortly after sunrise must certainly be one of the better ways to start the day.

Caroline Wise and Katharina in Frankfurt, Germany

This is Katharina Engelhardt with her aunt, Caroline Elisabeth Wise. We first met this somewhat shy, seriously nerdy young lady just five years ago as she began her teen years. A couple of years ago when Caroline paid a visit to the Engelhardt’s to celebrate her mom’s 80th and her sister’s 50th birthdays, I wasn’t able to attend. This visit was in honor of our niece’s 18th birthday. At this point in her life, she has as much passion for horses as she seems to have always had; the matter of fact is that the family makes time, nearly if not every year, to take Katharina on a vacation that centers on horses just for her. She’s been picking up on crafting projects with the help of her mom, Stephanie, and photography from her dad, Klaus. Katharina has also taken a liking to judo, which is a passion of her father. This coming year, she’ll be making the choice about what to do regarding university; I’m guessing it will be something science-related. While she’s already been to America on a school-sponsored trip to New York, she’s yet to visit us out west, though I think that day will come somewhere in the not-too-distant future.

Frankfurt, Germany

I thought I had the fortitude to just plow into the day after our photography outing, but NO WAY. Klaus, Katharina, Caroline, and I, in agreement that a half-hour nap would be helpful, all crashed for a couple of more hours of serious sleep. Awake for the second time, Klaus headed out for some shopping while Caroline and Stephanie were going to head out for some shopping, too. As for me, I wanted to catch up on some writing, so I opted to stay put until I learned that the girls were heading to Konstablerwache for the Saturday open-air market. I love this place, and missing one last visit would have been too much to endure, so along I went. Maybe you noticed I didn’t mention Katharina? She’s still out of commission and sleeping hard.

Frankfurt, Germany

The mushroom man nearly tricked me into thinking he wasn’t here today because when we’d been here a couple of weeks ago with Angela, I’d seen his stand and, more importantly, his giant wok of simmering mushrooms, but we’d already been grazing and had no appetite when we’d caught sight of his stand. Not seeing him on a quick scan of the market, I’d already had some white asparagus from one vendor and a potato sausage from another on Stephanie’s recommendation. It was just after that I saw his food stand and ordered a bowl of mixed mushrooms cooked in an herb sauce. His mushroom concoction is a melody of everything you see in this photo. Seeing how I hate mushrooms, I walked over to the nearby McDonald’s and got a Big Mac. JUST KIDDING!

Frankfurt, Germany

Converging back in Heddernheim, we collected Katharina and grabbed the next train to the Hauptbahnhof to get on an S-Bahn out to Höchst. Seeing that TGV train up on the schedule leaving in 3 minutes for Paris has me dreaming of another trip to Germany. It’s a 4-hour trip on a high-speed train across the German and French landscape and only about $110 round-trip for the journey. Come to think about it, we’ve never been to the Channel Tunnel either. Travel fever is in full effect.

Hoechst, Germany

We are in Höchst, which is a little village on the Main River. We have nothing really in mind more than a lazy day on the river, spending some time together. Okay, well, I have something in mind; I’m craving some soft-serve ice cream really badly.

The Engelhardt's and Caroline Wise in Hoechst, Germany

The Engelhardt’s seem to know where we are going, Caroline and I are just going with the flow. Sometimes it’s great to not be the people in control and be able to find surprises in where we end up.

Hoechst, Germany

Walking along, taking in the sights, not in a rush to get anywhere.

Hoechst, Germany

This is my new love, abandoned steps. Sadly the last ones I found were two weeks ago in Como, Italy. Does anyone know of a guide to abandoned steps across Europe?

Hoechst, Germany

What time is it? It’s snack time on the Main. Hint: Main, as in the river we are sitting next to that rhymes with time!

The Engelhardt's and Caroline Wise in Hoechst, Germany

We needed that energy refueling stop as our adventure was taking us over the river. This photo attests to the fact that we made it to the other side. How grueling is the crossing, you ask? Not as bad as I’d imagined, as the 1€ per person ferry made it safely across in only about five minutes. Any longer, and I was certain the sea monsters and piranha-infested waters of this Rhine River tributary would have been the end of us.

Hoechst, Germany

We walked around a bit over here and dreamed of one day bringing a bike on the train to this point on the Main River and riding it back to Frankfurt. Turns out that since we left, there has been quite a bit of work done on greenbelts and footpaths dedicated to traffic other than by speeding cars and trains.

Hoechst, Germany

We took up some refuge from the Sun and sat under a tree in the grass to watch and listen to the sounds of life, river, wind, rustling leaves, and the occasional bee out on a pollinating nectar collection journey.

Katharina in Hoechst, Germany

While we sat in the grass, Katharina was riverside with one of the horses from her collection of hundreds of model horses. She’s become quite adept at capturing horses from her collection in settings that, at first glance, appear to be real horses in their natural environment. Maybe she’ll share a couple in the future, and I can make a blog post of some of my favorites.

Hoechst, Germany

This bridge crosses the Nidda River which is also the beginning of the Frankfurt Greenbelt that allows visitors to walk or ride their bikes on about 70 kilometers of paths through the region to and around Frankfurt. More information can be found at Frankfurt.de under the heading Greenbelt; there’s also a free map at the Tourism Office and a free app for your phone. The Frankfurt Greenbelt was crowned in 2014 as the “Most beautiful hiking trail in Germany.”

Hoechst, Germany

Thunder was being heard in the distance, so we started walking in the direction of the train station, but not before we made another pit stop for replenishment. My mint-ginger iced tea was great, but it was Caroline’s rhubarb soda that won the day for yummy.

Hoechst, Germany

Reaching the train stop just in time to take cover as the drops came down hard and huge. Still no soft serve.

Frankfurt, Germany

While we had the chance for a nap earlier, I could feel the exhaustion of a vacation that had been lived large bearing down on me, and seeing I wasn’t getting any closer to finding a reviving cone of soft serve; I had to opt for the next best thing; coffee. Again, no paper cups for the landfill. Across Europe, we’ve noticed that straws and paper cups are not so quickly handed out. While we stopped for my coffee, we also had another mission on our way to our dinner reservation, but Stephanie had something else to tend to, so we agreed that we’d accompany Klaus and Katharina to look for some travel gifts that Katharina would offer her host on an upcoming trip that sees her leaving a day after we do.

Frankfurt, Germany

With gifts in the bag, we took the train to a nearby stop for the walk to the Zur Golden Kron restaurant. Since the last time we ate here, the establishment has changed ownership and now features an Austrian-influenced menu.

Caroline Wise and The Engelhardt's in Frankfurt, Germany

Stephanie finally joins us and we are ready to start the indulgence of our evening meal.

Caroline Wise and Stephanie in Frankfurt, Germany

Except that before the food can be delivered a torrential downpour inundated the place. For a while, we thought we might be able to hold out as the umbrellas over our table were effective in keeping us dry as others scurried away. That didn’t last long, as though it were testing us, the rain came down harder yet. We were brought umbrellas so we could dash for the dining room. While our meals were delayed as they were for everyone, as about 30 of us had to be resat, the food was exceptional, and we’d love to return for another meal at Zur Golden Kron.

Graffiti in Frankfurt, Germany

It’s difficult to say goodnight to Frankfurt and even harder to say goodbye. There was a point early in our travel planning when Caroline asked why we don’t just spend two weeks in Frankfurt and I insisted that I wanted to go other places. I can’t really tell you if I’m in love with some kind of nostalgic ideal or if the city really is imbued with the qualities I want to believe it is. What I do know is that I feel at home here more than anywhere else I’ve ever been.

I’ve been back to Buffalo, New York, where I was born, a number of times, and while I enjoy my visits and tastes of Buffalo, it is a sad and depressing place in so many ways that are complicated by the issues of racism that are alive and well. While racism is endemic in almost all economically depressed locations in America, it is especially tragic in Buffalo as this historically important place was once one of America’s most important and successful cities.

On numerous occasions, I’ve returned to Los Angeles, where I spent my teenage years, and while I still love L.A. in so many ways, it will never be a city with a character or thought of as a destination because it is 1000 destinations with myriad characters. Southern California is truly a melting pot, but it is too big to ever feel like you’ve been there.

Arizona, where I currently live, is sterile with an extra heaping spoon of conformity thrown on top. Culture, entertainment, intellectual rigor, gourmet cuisine, bustling nightlife, none of those figures in the makeup of the greater Phoenix area. People will live there for a lifetime and never travel more than 30 miles from their homes. This is the 6th largest city in America, but it might as well be Anywhere 100 miles from Anything.

America is at a crossroads where the only thing it is able to celebrate is its love of sports and celebrity, along with its dislike of immigrants, government, and opinions that don’t fit their own. And that’s what I have to return to tomorrow. On the other hand, America is vast and is not fully baked. I do know we have the ability to change, just as the Germans who threw off the yoke of Nazism and modernized their society did over the last 70 years. America will have to throw off the yoke of Stupidity and modernize our education. Maybe this is why Trump and Putin are both so influential in their respective countries right now; they both have an aging, uniform, under-educated population that is too big to ignore and too set in their ways to adapt to the changes our modern economies have created.

Thanks to the Engelhardt’s, Frankfurt, and the rest of Europe for staying up late, keeping us entertained, learning, and smiling.

Frankfurt – Europe Day 20

Highway Vignettes Frankfurt, Germany

Time to return our rental car this morning. The photo I’m sharing here is of three of the four vignettes we were required to purchase as we drove across a small corner of Europe. The top orange sticker is from Switzerland, below that is Slovenia, and at the bottom is the vignette from Austria. Hungary used an electronic version. Vignettes are a taxing system to gain permission to drive the roads of a specific country. The Swiss one was our most expensive at 40 Euros (about $48), and while it was good for a year, we only used it for half a dozen hours as we drove from Colmar, France, to Como, Italy.

My thoughts on the vignettes are that they are a good idea. Do I love the cost? Not really, but I understand the idea behind them. I’m already spending at least $25 a day for a rental car, plus about $8 a gallon for gas. I filled up in France and didn’t need gas again until we were halfway across Italy. Without the vignettes, I would have crossed through Switzerland using their roads for absolutely free. I used a winding mountain pass over the Alps and tunnels and pulled over on gravel shoulders a number of times, thus adding to the wear and tear that a Swiss citizen will have to repair and be compensated for. While it could be argued that this cost was exorbitant, I cannot agree; we ended up spending about $8 an hour to pass through the Alps or about what we’d pay to watch a blockbuster movie per hour. Thanks for the privilege, Switzerland, and for being smart about this. The truth is that we are already spending $200 – $300 a day just to be in Europe, so this is of little consequence in the scheme of things.

Frankfurt, Germany

Frankfurt is in a massive building expansion with cranes dotting the landscape, just as we saw five years earlier during that visit. The area where these high-rise apartments are going up was an industrial area full of train tracks. Caroline had a job with a company there when I met her. Today, there is a luxury mall where we returned the rental car in their parking garage maze, a bunch of hotels, and blocks of new apartments that honestly are seriously visually unappealing.

Caroline Wise in Frankfurt, Germany

Rather than catch a subway right away, we decided to walk to the Hauptbahnhof (main train station) to see what was in this neighborhood besides construction. The area is culturally diverse, and it shows up in the restaurant offerings from half a dozen countries, many from outside the European Union. While things are not gentrified yet, it seems that the writing is on the wall where improvements to one area spill into the adjoining area, and soon rents are going up, and some of the diversity is pushed further out along with some of the charm.

Frankfurt, Germany

Reaching the Hauptbahnhof, we needed to get underground a couple of floors to wait for the U5 subway/tram that travels in the direction of Preungesheim. Our stop is the fifth one, where we exit at Glauburgstraße, our old neighborhood.

Caroline Wise in Frankfurt, Germany

We’ll just go ahead and do this backward and start with a sweet. Of course, we had to visit Eis Christina on Eckenheimer Landstraße, our favorite place in the universe for “Spaghetti Ice.” This strange-sounding concoction is actually a dollop of fresh whipped cream in the bottom of the bowl topped with vanilla ice cream pressed through a device that pushes out what looks like spaghetti, which is then covered with strawberry sauce (looks a lot like tomato sauce, huh?) and finally, it’s topped with grated white chocolate for that authentic Parmesan cheese appearance.

John Wise Caroline Wise in Frankfurt, Germany

Around the corner are Weberstraße and Neuhofstraße. About three car lengths north of the intersection is the first place Caroline and I ever kissed, and that’s where we are standing for this selfie. It was at 5:00 am on a Sunday morning, the 18th of June, 1989. In a moment, I was smitten with a Frankfurter in Frankfurt. Today, I am still fully taken by this beautifully cute, curious, empathetic woman who helped me refine my enjoyment of life and shared a million incredible experiences that have made our lives far better together.

Pizza from Frankfurt, Germany

Walking down Nostalgiastraße, the experience wouldn’t be complete without a stop at Olbia Pizzeria. We enjoyed takeout from this tiny neighborhood joint for years, often two or three times a week. Today as we were already half-full from the Spaghetti Ice, we split a pizza.

Frankfurt, Germany

Today is Caroline’s and my day to do what we want in Frankfurt. From lunch in our old neighborhood, we walked towards Saalburgstraße to visit Jutta for one last time during this vacation. The importance of this particular sign is that it is from Rapp’s which is a local juice company from just north of Frankfurt. During the ten years I lived in Germany, I was in love with not only their orange juice but things like blood orange and passion fruit juice too. Looking up the company as I write this, I see that they now feature rhubarb juice; if only we’d known this earlier in our visit.

Frankfurt, Germany

Caroline’s favorite “graffiti” in Frankfurt that we’ve passed many a time while visiting Jutta (Caroline’s mom).

Jutta Engelhardt and Rita in Frankfurt, Germany

On the left, as many of my readers already know, is my mother-in-law Jutta Engelhardt. On the right is Rita, who is one of her “caregivers” visitors who help ensure Jutta stays engaged and able to live on her own as long as possible. We heard that Rita has learned much of Caroline and me, along with Jutta’s ten trips to the United States. It was a pleasure meeting this outgoing and happy lady who is fond of sharing her time with people who can benefit from her smiling face.

Caroline Wise and Jutta Engelhardt in Frankfurt, Germany

After a couple of hours, it was time to bid adieu to Jutta, give this sweet old lady one more hug for the road and leave her with wishes that we should see her again in a couple of years.

Leaving Jutta is bittersweet and mixed with many emotions. We can never give her enough time on our visits, though we are very well aware that her precious time may be shorter than our own. This impulse to shove another lifetime of great memories into a brief moment while on vacation is futile, and yet we suffer from the guilt of having to walk away. Maybe because we are so far away and not able to visit spontaneously it makes our togetherness all the more important and meaningful.

Frankfurt, Germany

From Jutta’s, we walk over to the Bergerstraße, grabbing a coffee along the way before boarding the U4 subway at Bornheim Mitte in the direction of Konstablerwache. Here and in more than a few of the subway tunnels, I’m amazed at the great selection of bread, fruits, vegetables, and other goods that are so conveniently available.

Frankfurt, Germany

We could stay on the train and arrive quicker at our destination, but we are trying to milk every moment we can in taking in Frankfurt from all angles. This is Zeil, that runs from Konstablerwache just past Hauptwache, which is out in front of us somewhere.

Red Currants in Frankfurt, Germany

Along the way down Zeil was a temporary fruit stand with a lady selling various berries. The ones I’m most interested in are these red currants. While we’ve indulged in our fair share of Sachertorte, apple strudel with vanilla sauce, vanilla ice cream with hot raspberries, and even a visit for some spaghetti ice, we’ve also made sure to eat anything and everything that comes paired with red currants. Maybe because of the tart flavor, red currants are not popular in the United States, or we don’t know where to look.

Frankfurt, Germany

Walked over by what used to be one of my favorite English bookstores in Frankfurt; it’s now a Five Guys Burger joint. Around the corner from there, we saw that Cookies Nightclub is still in business. Back in the day, I saw Nitzer Ebb, Happy Mondays, and Steve Albini, among others, perform here. On one occasion while out on tour with Psychic TV, I ran into Caroline at around 3:00 in the morning here and met Angela for the first time. This was two months before Caroline and I would fall in love.

Caroline Wise in Frankfurt, Germany

We are doing something very out of the ordinary today. Caroline is trying on new clothes with full consideration of potentially buying stuff. Caroline rarely shops for new clothes, opting instead to wear things for years or when need be shopping at discount and second-hand stores. Shopping at a fashionable brand boutique like Gudrun Sjödén, where we are, is exceptional. While this wasn’t one of the pieces she ultimately left with, I have to admit that I was pleasantly surprised that we had bagged up at least half a dozen things that got pushed into the buy column and out of the uncertainty of I’ll-think-about-it column that is the norm.

John Wise and Caroline Wise in Frankfurt, Germany

After having Chinese tourists use us as props, it was our turn to use them in the same way. Their enthusiasm is infectious, and I only wish they could break out of their group clustering more often and engage with others.

Frankfurt, Germany

If you know Frankfurt, you know that we are crossing the Main River, and if we were just shopping near Hauptwache, then we must be heading towards Sachsenhausen. Believe it or not, we had quite the torrential downpour while we were in Gudrun Sjödén, but by the time Caroline had tried on more than 40 different items, that storm had come and gone. Good thing, too, as we do not have umbrellas with us.

Note: we brought our rain jackets from the States with us, and while they were great on the Colorado River in late fall, on the Alsek River in the Yukon in early summer, or on the Oregon Coast on cold rainy days, they were a horrible idea to bring to Europe on hot and humid days where we would have felt more like tightly wrapped sausages on a steaming table than would have been comfortable. We must bring umbrellas on our next visit.

Frankfurt, Germany

Looking back at the way we came, you can see a fraction of the many locks attached to Eiserner Steg. The “Iron Bridge” was built for foot traffic back in 1911/12 and today is as important to the skyline of Frankfurt as any of the churches or high rises.

Caroline Wise in Frankfurt, Germany

On our way down the world’s narrowest sidewalk to find the place we hope to have dinner at. Just kidding about the width of the sidewalk; we’ve been on narrower.

Caroline Wise in Frankfurt, Germany

Dinner in Frankfurt is nothing without a glass of apfelwein (apple wine), known as “Ebbelwoi” in the Frankfurt dialect, unless you are like me and don’t drink alcohol, and then a bottle of sparkling water will do. We were lucky to show up at the right moment and get a spot at a table as within minutes of our arrival, the place was packed.

Frankfurt, Germany

As I said, every spot is taken. Even under the tables, there are some well-behaved dogs down there.

Frankfurt, Germany

Green sauce is one of the signature dishes of Frankfurt and you can bet that we started by sharing a Handkäs mit Musik before the main course. The tastes of Germany never get old, and I’ll miss these dishes when we go home. Tonight’s last meal of the day was at Fichtekränzi established in 1849. The word fichtekränzi is the wreath of plaited spruce branches that signaled apple wine is served here.

Frankfurt, Germany

Beautiful graffiti rendition of Frankfurt!

Frankfurt, Germany

I suppose it’s not just the Frankfurt skyline that I’m in love with, but maybe it’s also the idea of all that I understand that surrounds this city historically, culturally, and intellectually. While it is not the seat of political power, Frankfurt is the seat of economic power and is in a role I don’t think it’s aware of; I believe it also plays a large role in the image of who a German is. Thirty-three years ago, when I first stepped foot in the city, it was cold and efficient. Back then, it had just barely recovered from the devastation of World War II that had concluded 40 years prior. As Caroline was growing up, she still saw the scars on Frankfurt, where the war had ruined places that were not quite finished being rebuilt. Now, more than 70 years after the war, the Frankfurters are a different people. They are not so cold and grim. There is color and laughter. The place is more casual, and service is often offered with a smile. Being in this city today, while comparing it to what it was in 1985, we are still in a melting pot of cultures, except now it doesn’t feel polarized and bitter.

While this trip didn’t take us to a dozen German cities like our visit five years ago, there is a different vibe in Frankfurt than the more stodgy, stuck-in-the-past Karlsruhe that was one of the other German cities we visited on this trip. This city shook the music world and brought a new generation to the dance floor with an impact that had implications on a global scale. Tonight in Frankfurt am Main, the city will celebrate Night of Science at the University Campus on Riedberg from 10:00 p.m. until early Saturday morning, with people from across the region attending talks and sessions about various disciplines across the sciences. The train system will be running over the wee hours to accommodate those who want to participate with the benefit of public transportation.

Frankfurt is the birthplace of Goethe, Henri Nestlé, Anne Frank, Theodor Adorno, and even American entrepreneur Peter Thiel. The city also can brag about famous residents over the years and centuries who called this home, such as Charlemagne, Arthur Schopenhauer, Max Beckmann, Max Horkheimer, Oskar Schindler, and Jürgen Habermas. Frankfurt has a long history of cultural and intellectual importance from the time of the Holy Roman Empire up to pissing off Otto von Bismarck regarding Frankfurt’s “Democratic spirit and freedom of the press” and more recently with The Frankfurt School of Critical Theory making large impacts on Western thinking.

A smarter plan feels needed, one that would better organize human potential than the laissez-faire methods that have gained so much popularity. A new outlook on education, culture, business, and finance is in order, and I, for one, vote for Frankfurt to lead such an effort. Frankfurt should take inspiration from its diversity, curiosity, and long intellectual history and put it to some good.

Frankfurt, Germany

Katharina had asked during the day if we’d be interested in waking up at 4:30 in the morning for a sunrise photography mission on a nearby overlook. Of course, we said yes. In order to try and get some sleep, we are leaving the inner city and heading back to Heddernheim.

Frankfurt, Germany

Waiting for one of the subways that will take us to the Zeilweg stop, we check out the posters that tease us about some of the events going on in the region over the next month or so. Events include literary, opera, stage plays, festivals, concerts, history exhibits, art shows, and everything in between.

Frankfurt, Germany

Our day of indulgently exploring Frankfurt together is nearly over. This is the view from the Zeilweg tram stop, where just ahead is the little turn-off between the bushes that leads us to the Engelhardt’s home. The sound of the trains pulling in and braking and then accelerating as they pull away will remain with us until we fall asleep. It is a welcome sound reminding us at midnight, when we finally head upstairs to get some sleep, that the people of Frankfurt are going home while others are going out as Germany moves forward on trying to be a positive catalyst for societal change instead of blundering ahead as a bulwark of blind adherents of conformity.