Spitting Image? I Don’t Think So!

Jessica Aldridge having issues.

Allegedly this is my daughter Jessica Aldridge, sorry but I don’t see the resemblance. I’d like to tell you this is her morning face, or her not feeling good face, or OMG I’m so pissed off at you dad face, but the truth is that this is the “I’m so happy to see you again” – face. On occasion she just shows up at our door out of the blue looking to connect with the “Normal” half of her family, please don’t ask what the other side is like (I don’t want to speak poorly of Sparky and Piggy – I think these are euphemisms for “the other half,” but am not certain). She threatens us with promises to hang out for a while. Is it too late to ask for a paternity test?

Making The Rounds

Jutta Engelhardt and Karen Goff meeting for lunch in Phoenix, Arizona

After a quiet day yesterday; there has to be some time to recover from jet lag, Jutta and I met my mother, Karen Goff, for lunch today. During Jutta’s 2009 visit, between remaining busy with so many activities and travels and my mother’s occasionally demanding work schedule, we missed the opportunity to meet up with my mom. That won’t happen during this vacation, as we make sure that these two have plenty of chances to get together between now and February 18 when Jutta returns to Frankfurt, Germany.

The Musical Instrument Museum

Jutta Engelhardt playing the Theramin at the Musical Instrument Museum in Phoenix, Arizona

Mom and daughter time makes way for me time. Dropped the girls at The Musical Instrument Museum at 10:00, wished them well, and encouraged Caroline and Jutta to take their time, enjoy a nice lunch at the cafe, before calling me to pick them up. While they walked the halls of the museum and listened to just a fraction of the instruments on display, I took off to celebrate that the next hours would be all about me! I would need that time, as tomorrow Caroline will go to work and Jutta and I will have the entire day to spend together. From the smile Jutta wore while playing the Theramin, I can only guess these two were enjoying themselves. Sorry, but there are no photos of me having an equal day of fun. Hmmm, as I now write this, I do not have the faintest idea what I did to spend my time productively, if, in fact, it was in any way put to good use.

Jutta Engelhardt playing the drum at The Musical Instrument Museum in Phoenix, Arizona

An obvious trend is developing as a potential hobby for Jutta – drumming. On a previous visit, Caroline suggested we take her mom to a drum class with an old friend of ours, Frank Thompson. Reluctant at first, Jutta fell into the rhythm and thoroughly enjoyed herself as Frank taught us some basics. Now here at The Mim, Jutta is again, getting her groove on. Maybe we should pick her up a set of bongo’s to take back to Germany?

Caroline Wise and Jutta Engelhardt in a self-portrait at The Musical Instrument Museum in Phoenix, Arizona

A picture worth a thousand memories. After more than seven hours the call came in, “We are ready to go.” If there is one regret during these visits between Caroline and her mom, it would be that there aren’t more days like this with such happy photos and big smiles.

Back to Buffalo, New York

Somewhere west of Montreal, Canada

We stayed somewhere west of Montreal (maybe Cornwall, Ontario), but I wrote just that at the end of yesterday’s post.

Tim Hortons in Morrisburg, Canada

Tim Hortons was in Morrisburg, Canada, and I have to say that I am more impressed with Strader Auto next door as they were the clue to find out where we were on the map on this day. Congrats to them for still being in business; as far as Tim Hortons goes, there’s no rhyme or reason they are as popular and ubiquitous as they are. Had we been able to find poutine for breakfast, we might still have tried Tim Hortons, but we’d have known to spit it out, opting for potatoes, cheese, and gravy instead.

Somewhere in Ontario, Canada

When I think bucolic living, this would do it for me right here, but then in 60 days, when the bitter cold of the region’s winter kicks in, I’d likely not continue holding fast to that idea.

Prescott Rotary Lighthouse in Prescott Ontario, Canada

Passed the Prescott Rotary Lighthouse which was an ice cream shop in Prescott, Ontario, Canada. Did we stop for ice cream? I have no idea but from the angle of the sun, I’d guess it was still too early for that, and in any case, we have some ideas for that when we get into Buffalo.

Caroline Wise and John Wise entering New York State near Alexandria Bay

We crossed into New York at the Thousand Islands Bridge Authority at Alexandria Bay and still had 240 miles to go before reaching the city in which I was born.

Bocce Club Pizza in Buffalo, New York

Pizza from Bocce Club on Bailey Avenue in the Amherst neighborhood of Buffalo is a mandatory stop, not just to satisfy our hunger but to allow us to carry with us some much-needed, awesome cold pizza on our flight home tonight.

Fowlers Chocolate in Buffalo, New York

This is Fowler’s Chocolate. I think I shared a photo of the place back in the year 2000 when we visited here while Caroline and I were on our first cross-country trip, and while I may proclaim not to enjoy nostalgia, that’s just lips flapping when it serves me to sharpen my edge-lord persona. Bocce Club, Ted’s Hotdogs, Anderson’s Custard, and Fowler’s with their orange chocolate are pleasures from my childhood I can’t ignore.

We had one more stop to make this afternoon, and it was quite possibly a mistake. Our great aunt and uncle, who used to live near Santa Barbara, California, in the town of Goleta, skipped back to the place of their birth, Buffalo, New York. Not only that, they bought a house across the street from where my father grew up and where my aunt Lillian was still living. They didn’t so much move as they escaped due to a part of their past catching up with them that brought my aunt shame and anger because of so many unresolved issues. Once back here in Buffalo, it was obvious that my uncle’s health took a severe turn for the worse, as he was a shell of the man he used to be. Now, we were left with the tragic image of a couple half-broken and seeming to be quite unhappy in the last stages of life. Woody passed the following year, December 16th, 2012, at the age of 88.

Going North With Jessica

Fountain Hills, Arizona

A dozen years between the events of this day and the moment I’m sitting down in an attempt to blog about it is stretching my ability to make things up. It’s June 2023, and I’m seriously at a loss to fill in the details here, but all the same, I want the photos and the date my daughter and I were traveling to join the rest of my posts. Familiarity with locations will help somewhat, such as this being an overlook in Fountain Hills looking to the south over Tempe and Mesa.

Near Fountain Hills, Arizona

From the photo that follows, I can guess that we are somewhere near Fort McDowell; other than that, I’ve got nothing.

Near Fort McDowell, Arizona overlooking Arizona Route 87

Of interest here is Arizona Route 87 was being expanded and is under construction on the left. What vantage point I took this photo from is a mystery to me.

Sycamore Creek near Fort McDowell, Arizona on Arizona Route 87

I want to say this is Sycamore Creek, but I could be wrong.

Arizona Route 87

As the title of the post states, Jessica and I are going north, and while I know the destination as I’ve already prepped all the photos, other than her seeing something firsthand, I can’t say there was any other purpose to our drive.

Somewhere on Arizona Route 87

Spring is in the air, but of course it is; it’s the end of March.

Somewhere near Payson, Arizona

Which also means that winter is lingering.

Somewhere near Payson, Arizona

I’d recognize these pine trees on the Mogollon Rim somewhere near Payson any day.

Jessica Aldridge licking snow on the Mogollon Rim in Arizona

As she rolled up this snowball, I hoped she hadn’t collected any yellow bits before sticking her tongue out to lick the thing.

Heading north in Arizona

I think I know where we are.

Somewhere near Sedona in Arizona

This can only be heading into Sedona, which means we are taking the scenic route north of here; why I didn’t shoot any photos of Oak Creek Canyon is yet another mystery regarding this outing.

Flagstaff, Arizona in the distance

This is not the only time I’ve shot this photo from the John Wesley Powell offramp south of Flagstaff.

Jessica Aldrige at OARS in Flagstaff, Arizona

So, here we are at the OARS warehouse. OARS is the company that took Caroline and me down the Colorado River through the Grand Canyon last year. The likely reason for us to come up here is that I was knee-deep writing my book about our experience, and I didn’t need much excuse at all to pay a visit and commune with a dory (pictured behind Jessica). Following this scenic, circuitous journey for my pilgrimage, we would have headed home down the freeway as this was the end of photos for the day.