Jessica Arizona to Colorado – Day 2

Jessica Wise on the Durango Silverton Steam Train in Southwest Colorado

Our descent into father/daughter madness continues with me scouting the next location to take action. I got it, the old “throw the kid from the speeding train” trick. She must have figured out my dastardly plan and has strapped herself to her seat on the Durango & Silverton Narrow Gauge Railroad in Colorado. This photo was her laughing at me and gloating, “You didn’t expect that, did you? I’ve got you figured out, old man!”

Durango Silverton Steam Train in Southwest Colorado

Okay, enough of the drama (I can hear Caroline cackling back in Arizona, “Ha John, you never stop with the drama!”) and so I’ll get serious about this narrative.

Durango Silverton Steam Train in Southwest Colorado

We are having a great time out here, but I’m sure you already knew that by the smiles I’m capturing on Jessica’s face. I’ll need to keep those close to my heart as aging into adulthood, and whatever changes her career in the Navy will bring she risks those eyes of innocence becoming shaded by cynicism. Hopefully, the explorations into experiences will leave her with the idea that there are always possibilities that go beyond what you are leaving behind and that you are always leaving something behind.

Durango Silverton Steam Train in Southwest Colorado

One day, she’s a high school student in rural Texas; the next, she’s traveling in the mountains to an old mining town, but maybe tomorrow, she’s on that raft out there testing her mettle.

Silverton, Colorado

Here we are in Silverton, Colorado, for lunch. Our stopover will be short, and then we’ll be back on the train, returning to Durango.

Durango Silverton Steam Train in Southwest Colorado

We wander around the edge of town, away from the other tourists who are more interested in trinkets and souvenirs, which forces me to give credit to Jessica for sharing my enthusiasm for the spectacle of nature.

Durango Silverton Steam Train in Southwest Colorado

I have to admit that before embarking on this epic three-day journey, I was afraid it might be boring for my teenage daughter. I’m enchanted that she and I are getting along and laughing as much as we are.

Cow Canyon Trading Post in Bluff, Utah

With so much available daylight here in summer, we don’t waste any of it staying in place; we remain on the move. This stop for a photo was in Bluff, Utah, on our way south.

Monument Valley in Utah

Perfect timing to reach our first sight of Monument Valley in the last moments of the setting sun.

Jessica Wise and John Wise at Monument Valley in Utah

I can’t get over that Jessica is not wearing the face of simply tolerating the whims of her father but seems to have eyes that exclaim that she’s having fun. Don’t worry; I do consider that she might just be a good actress and wants to avoid that side of her father she doesn’t really like.

Mexican Hat Lodge in Southern Utah

We had to turn around down near Monument Valley to drive back up through the Valley of the Gods into Mexican Hat where we were staying tonight. When I booked this evening at the “Home of the Swingin’ Steak” I was already well aware of their vegetarian option as that’s what Caroline orders when we are here. The man on the grill is Clint, a legend!

As we sat roadside with the grill swinging back and forth, just as advertised, a dog emerged from the night, and instead of coming up begging for food, it flopped down in the dirt, rolled over, and showed us its belly, putting on a perfect show of total cuteness. A metaphor for a father and daughter known to quibble, just show each other some vulnerability, and you’ll understand how cute the other is.

Jessica Arizona to Colorado – Day 1

Jessica Wise and John Wise in Arizona

Time for some father-daughter bonding, so Jessica and I headed out on the road to torture each other. I mean, seriously, who travels with their 17-year-old kid when said kid actually wants to spend time with a parent? I always thought this was anathema to the very ideas of freedom. And it’s not like we haven’t had a rocky past where Mr. Opinionated A-Hole made his fragile progeny weep giant tears of hurt.

Petrified Forest National Park, Arizona

But here we are all the same, just the two of us testing one another to see who will crack out a giant desiccated car-length turd of despair. This example log at Petrified Forest National Park may not have been a tree at all and could seriously be a T-Rex BM back in the day when Father Tiny-Arms attempted to visit the Grand Canyon but got so pinched in the tension of such an ordeal that this happened.

Petrified Forest National Park, Arizona

Of course, I’m just kidding. My heart is not made of stone, and I’m sure hers is not either, though her mother sent me this image claiming it is, in fact, a fairly accurate representation of that cold thing beating in her chest. What I didn’t laugh at was her claim that she’d inherited from me.

Jessica Wise at Petrified Forest National Park, Arizona

Jeez, we only made it to the north side of the park before I had to push Jessica over a cliff. How she caught that pole is beyond me. I guess if she’s old enough to be heading off to the Navy, she’s old enough to have been practicing pole skills. Oh, did I forget to share that? Jessica needed me to sign off on her early enrollment to join the military, and after a minute of trying to dissuade her, her argument was too strong to ignore. Her reasoning was something like this, “I don’t know what I want to do, and I don’t want to end up pregnant or on drugs, which seem to be the options out here in Florence, Texas.” Well, how do you argue with that?

Petrified Forest National Park, Arizona

Next, I tried the old trick that I’d hidden her birthday present out in the maze and all she needed to do was to brave the heat and hellish sun exposure and start hunting for it. I insisted there was a cash element to it, but she wasn’t biting. I think she knew by this time I would drive away.

Jessica Wise at Window Rock, Arizona (Navajo Nation)

But then there she is, putting on that cute “I’m seriously nice, Dad, but you have issues” smile, and I give in to allowing her to eat. My daughter is a vegetarian, yet another reason to leave her by the side of the road.

Jessica Wise and Colorado State Sign

Jessica exclaims, “What am I supposed to do, just pose here or something?” I responded with, “Look behind you; you are on Highway 666, which seems an appropriate place for the spawn of some evil like you to find your way. I’ll just tell Caroline you got cold feet about the Navy and decided to go nomad.”

Mesa Verde National Park, Colorado

This is turning out more difficult than I thought, as even up here in the mountain retreat of Mesa Verde National Park, she wouldn’t believe me that her room for the night was in a kiva on the other side of the wall. It’s not that I don’t cherish my daughter, but you’ve never smelled her feet, and if we get to a motel tonight, I’m going to suffer in inhuman ways unimaginable to others. Guys have feet like hers (including the incredible size; I swear if she were shorter, she’d be a hobbit). Her feet are of the kind where you ask people to take their shoes off outside and wash those mosquito attractors before entering the room or just leave them sealed up in their shoes that are probably growing to their feet anyway.

Sunset in Colorado

Wow, we made it to the world’s cheapest motel I could find in Cortez, Colorado. This remnant of dryas would have provided more loft under our heads than the pillows we were given. To add insult to injury, I found us a Chinese restaurant to “dine” at. Anyone who’s traveled America’s minor roads knows, “Never go to a Chinese restaurant in a city under 150,000 people,” and here in Cortez, the population doesn’t even hit 8,500. You wanted vegetarian food, it’s this or Arby’s.

Jessica Going Back To Arizona

Santa Barbara, California

The next day, we took an early morning drive up into the mountains above Santa Barbara, California.

Cold Springs Tavern in Santa Barbara, California

Had a great breakfast at the historic Cold Spring Tavern, which was established in 1865.

Jessica Wise and Caroline Wise in Little India, California

On the way back to Arizona, we stopped in Artesia, the home of Little India, to take the kid shopping.

Jessica Wise with John Wise in Little India, California

She also tried Indo-Chinese cooking for the first time at Rasraj.

Jessica Wise trying Falooda in Little India California

Finally, she dipped into a falooda – a sweet Indian/Persian drink with lots of ice cream, rose syrup, and noodles.

In America with Jay Patel – Day 10

Jay Patel with Caroline and John Wise entering New Mexico

Ring…Ring….The alarm should have shaken us awake on the final day of this 13-state road trip. But Caroline, sometime during the night, turned it off, and we overslept by half an hour. Maybe she was about to take another midnight shower before she rechecked the clock, seeing it was too early to arise, and went back to sleep forgetting to reset the clock. It’s another hour before we checkout. We drop the key at the front desk and take advantage of the offer for coffee and donuts. Exhaustion is catching up with us.

Snow on the mountains with blue skies and wildflowers was a welcome sight as we got back out on the road.

Fort Union National Monument in New Mexico

Just as we start enjoying the mountains, they give way to the continuation of the Great Plains. Our next turnoff is towards the Fort Union National Monument and the Santa Fe National Historic Trail. The park doesn’t open till 8:00, but it’s 8:05, so we are ear-to-ear grins as this is one of the rare moments we are not too early.

We enter the grounds of the monument through the visitor’s center. This is the last National Park or Monument that we will enter on this particular National Park Pass that is expiring this month. A year before, we paid $50 for the annual pass and since that time it has taken us to the following National Parks: Everglades, Great Smoky Mountains, Hot Springs, the Grand Canyon twice, Glacier, Yellowstone twice, Grand Tetons twice, Canyonlands, Black Canyon of the Gunnison, Arches, Mesa Verde, Bryce, Great Basin, Redwoods, Channel Islands, Saguaro, Voyageurs, Theodore Roosevelt. We have also visited the following National Monuments on the same pass: White Sands, Hohokam Pima, Walnut Canyon, Dinosaur, Organ Pipe, Coronado, Chiricahua, Salinas Pueblo Mission, Bandelier, Petroglyph, Tuzigoot, Montezuma’s Castle, Wupatki twice, Sunset Crater, Great Sand Dunes, El Malpais, Gila Cliff Dwellings, Pinnacles, Tonto, Homestead, Fort Union, Effigy Mounds, and the Little Bighorn Battlefield. Finally, into these sites too: Fort Bowie National Historic Site, Tumacacori National Historic Park, Chaco Culture National Historic Park, Fort Clatsop National Memorial, Nicodemus National Historic Site, Fort Union Trading Post National Historic Site, onto the Blue Ridge Parkway.

Fort Union National Monument in New Mexico

The value of our National Parks is not wasted on Caroline and me; we love each and every park in the system we have visited. The $50 we pay each June for our annual park pass is some of the best money we spend all year. When we consider that the fees just to enter Glacier, the Grand Canyon, and Yellowstone would have been $100 for the past year, you can see how we appreciate this little plastic credit card-sized treasure.

Back to Fort Union, the day couldn’t be better; a deep blue sky and high clouds with snow-capped mountains far on the horizon is our backdrop. The fort was established in 1851 and served as a guardian to the Santa Fe Trail for forty years. Over those years, three different forts had been constructed with the last two’s remains still visible.

Fort Union National Monument in New Mexico

The ruins are not better preserved as the land the fort had been built on was never properly acquired and was actually squatting on private land. As the fort’s land was given back to its owner and people at the time not being able to see the future importance of such a place, the owner allowed all takers to come in to remove bricks, fixtures, wood beams, and other miscellaneous building materials that were subsequently used on their own homes and farms.

For 65 years, the fort sat exposed to the elements before President Eisenhower signed into law the bill that established national monument status for the biggest military fort of its day west of the Mississippi.

Visiting the ruins today, you walk down the original sidewalk, now cracked and buckling, past the remaining walls and chimneys. Some of the adobe walls still have original plaster holding tight to the walls that once gave refuge to soldiers protecting travelers of the Santa Fe Trail. A sundial still tells time much as it has for more than 100 years.

Some walls still stand over 12 feet tall and are the best preserved within the monument. Most of the structures were made of adobe, but a few remain made of stone. Amidst the walls, a number of old wagons, wheels, and farming implements still lay about. Thorny thistles poke out of the earth near the old stone jail. The cells were small and dark but quite cool, too; the cells probably offered the coolest location in the fort during the hot summers.

At the visitor’s center, we take a walk through a well-equipped museum that displays artifacts found during excavations over the years. On the western frontier, this is the most extensive and one of the most popular forts in the care of the park.

Rural New Mexico

On Interstate 25 for a short while, then we turn off on Route 84 which is a surviving segment of old Route 66. Typical with many of the towns that were on the now-famous route, they fall into decline, and in some cases, they disappear altogether. Anton Chico is one of the towns that are having a difficult time hanging on. Many of the buildings are collapsing or abandoned and awaiting their ultimate demise.

Snake in New Mexico

The old Route 66 must have been a scenic highway; the short segments we’ve traveled have always shown us the more beautiful parts of the country. We now dread the I-40, which replaced it; the interstate moves fast, with many a trucker pulling another load across the country on this congested superhighway. Only 26 miles down the I-40, and I’ve had enough. We turn off exit 230 south to Encino. Along the way, we pass a small lake and a snake trying to cross the blistering highway.

Rural New Mexico

Further along, a small flock of sheep scurries across the desert, kicking up dust as they run off. Not far after Encino a small abandoned house with its electricity meter still running has been taken over by birds that are nesting throughout the home. The former ranch, its trailer home, and fencing are all in need of serious repair. No for sale sign sits outside not that I’m in a buying mood for this dilapidated old place anyway.

Jay Patel in New Mexico

Jay jumped up on a train to get the feeling for what riding the rails across America might be like, more like surfing a train, I suppose. We pass a man walking across the desert who obviously doesn’t fit in the picture. I pull over to offer him some cold water, which he seems to appreciate, and we learn that he is Bob Brandkamp, who is on a ‘Road to Awareness” to help bring awareness to mental health. Bob is strolling across America. He is also mighty alone out here with some wide swaths of land to cover before coming upon another town that may or may not be inhabited. We wish him luck and then after leaving, wish we had given him one of our nice cold peach cups. Well, he is walking across America; I suppose he should be well prepared.

The land is austere, with short grasses and even smaller clusters of shrubs abounding. A dry salt lake stretches along the road for a while before our gaze returns to an empty land. At 12:30 we enter Mountainair and one minute later leave Mountainair. A half-hour after that we cross the Rio Grande and are now close to Socorro.

Jay Patel with Caroline and John Wise at Bosque Del Apache in New Mexico

Socorro a favorite New Mexican town of ours. It is here that we stay when we go to the Bosque Del Apache Wildlife Refuge for bird watching in winter. The first inevitable stop is the El Camino Family Restaurant, the only restaurant we eat at here in Socorro. The El Camino is a New Mexican version of Denny’s. 24-7 breakfast is standard, but the New Mexican touch is that they will smother anything you order with green chili if that’s your wish. The food has a bite, is considerably better than Denny’s, and is inexpensive. If someone were to ask Caroline and me what our favorite top 10 restaurants in America are, I’m sure the El Camino would be on it.

We are in the area, so we make our way down the road for a short detour to the Bosque, the winter home to 10s of thousands of migratory birds. We spent a New Year’s Day here a couple of years ago and were rewarded with seeing more than 20,000 snow geese simultaneously lift off an iced-over lake as two eagles spooked them into action. The flapping and commotion of so many birds overhead brought tears to nearly every one of the 35 people who braved the 18-degree (-8 Celsius) morning to watch the large birds disperse. On another early spring visit, we listened to thousands of songbirds bring the refuge to a symphonic ecstasy.

Today, the refuge is nearly silent save for the wind rustling the grass. Some stragglers are in the few ponds that still have water. The grasses, though, are lushly green and taller than we’ve seen them at other times of the year. The wind blows just enough to make small waves on the water, and we, in turn, wave goodbye to the refuge.

Jay Patel in New Mexico

By the Rio Grande River again, we look for a place, any place to get down into the water but give up quickly with the need to return to Phoenix before midnight. North on the I-25 for a short time until Interstate 60 takes us west. The I-40 would be faster but is also so anticlimactic after such a rewarding long drive across so much beautiful land. Besides, just off the 60 is the VLA, also known as the Very Large Array.

The VLA gained fame after Jodie Foster, in her role in the film Contact, made the radio telescopes world-famous. Short on time, but with such dramatic skies, we take the turnoff to visit the VLA. Under these giant radio telescopes, the wind howls through their massive structures. Today, the ears listening to space are configured in such a way that all of the dishes are stacked close to the visitor center. On other visits, the array is spread across many a mile.

Pie Town, that famous locale for pies: we’ve been through here so many times we can no longer count them. Pie Town must surely be open to serving us some pie today because it is just not possible that this place can be closed every single time we come through. Wrong. It is closed, and we will have no pie. I’d tell you more about Pie Town, but then you might have the same curiosity we have only to never be able to satisfy that curiosity because Pie Town is never actually serving pie, or so it seems.

Jay Patel and Caroline Wise standing in the Little Colorado River in Arizona

The road is quickly approaching Arizona just as fast as the sun drops in the sky. As if coordinating with the Arizona state welcome sign, the sun is nearly aligned behind the sun of our state’s flag.

One more chance to step into a river has presented itself. Appropriately, it is the Little Colorado River. When the trip began, the first river that Caroline and Jay stepped into was the Colorado River; today, with only a few more hours before we got home, they stepped into the Little Colorado River.

Caroline, who has come down with a cold late on the trip closes her eyes and tries to get a little rest. The sun sets in the Tonto National Forest while we snake our way down and through the Salt River Canyon. At 10:48 p.m. after 6,132 miles, we are home.