Jessica with Arizona Family

Jessica Wise and Herbert Kurchoff in Phoenix, Arizona

Trying to help Jessica have a meaningful time with us by making up for some of the years of lost visits due to complications with her living situation in Texas. Today, we hung out with her great-grandfather Herbert Kurchoff and his sister Eleanor.

Jessica Wise and Eleanor Burke formerly Kurchoff in Phoenix, Arizona

This is my great aunt Eleanor and Herbie’s older sister. We all refer to her as Auntie. She was born the same year Arizona became a state or seventy-six years before Jessica was born.

Jessica Wise, Karen Goff (Kurchoff) and Amanda Goff in Phoenix, Arizona

We all got together for dinner tonight to round out the day with family. Back when Jessica moved to the United States about five years before Caroline and I did, she spent time here in Arizona visiting my mom and Amanda. This is the first time they’ve been back together since 1998, when Jessica last came out.

Jessica in Santa Barbara and Hollywood

288 Placer Drive in Goleta, California

It was well after midnight when we knocked on the door here at 288 Placer Drive in Goleta, California. There’s never been a year that my Uncle Woody didn’t hang Christmas lights for the holidays. There’s such a reassuring feeling every time I pull into the driveway; I think it’s because they’ve lived in a single house longer than anyone else I know. We chatted a bit and then headed to sleep because no matter when we laid down, we were going to be getting up for breakfast around 7:00. My aunt and uncle have their routines and no one is going to interfere with them.

Jessica Wise and Ann Burns in Santa Barbara, California

This was the first time Jessica met my favorite great aunt and great uncle. As always, they put family on a pedestal and were thrilled to meet her. While Jessica never had the opportunity to meet any of her paternal grandparents on my side of the family, amazingly, she’s spending the first part of the day with her great-great-aunt and uncle.

Ann Burns, Caroline Wise, Woody Burns, Jessica Wise, and John Wise in Santa Barbara, California

After breakfast, it was off to the dog park and then some chatting before, all of a sudden it was lunchtime and time for us to start back down the coast before leaving California for Arizona.

Jessica Wise and Caroline Wise near Summerland, California

As we were passing the Summerland area, it was obvious a low-tide event was occurring, so no matter that we had to move in the general direction of home, we were going to explore tide pools, and that was that.

Seeing an anemone or starfish is like admiring a sunrise over mountains or a sunset at the ocean. If you don’t stop to take in these sights, you are missing out on life.

Jessica Wise, Caroline Wise, and John Wise near Summerland, California

Okay, that’s enough of the Pacific; we’ve got to get going.

Jessica Wise in Hollywood, California

Until we got to Hollywood for the briefest of stops to snap a photo of Jessica on Hollywood Boulevard and Gower Street, it didn’t matter whose star was on the sidewalk; what was important was that it was a star, and we could see the Hollywood sign behind my daughter. Maybe on a subsequent visit, we can spend more time exploring Los Angeles. BTW, if you think her gesture should be interpreted as, “What, do you just want me to stand right here?” that is exactly what she’s asking.

Jessica at Disneyland

Jessica Wise and Amanda Goff at Disneyland in Anaheim, California

We are spending the better part of the day into the night right here in Disneyland. One of the first rides we went on knowing that the line is one of the longest later in the day, is the Matterhorn.

Disneyland in Anaheim, California

It being Christmas time, we can always count on a great parade during the holiday.

Disneyland in Anaheim, California

We stuck around for the fireworks and then made our way over to Downtown Disney.

Jessica Wise, Amanda Goff, Caroline Wise, Shari Wise, and John Wise at Disneyland in Anaheim, California

My other sister, Shari Weismann, joined us at the end of the day so she could meet Jessica. Amanda was leaving with Shari to stay the night with her, and so after a goodnight to them we were finally on the way to Santa Barbara to stay the night with my Aunt Ann and Uncle Woody.